Not sure why I am typing this other than I guess I need to I haven't been out of a relationship all that long-- it ended quite a while ago though, really. I have been on the hunt. The EX and I remain best friends. It just wasn't working out for the time being. I know what I want in a female, SO, :blah: I have had a couple girls I have talked to...It just doesn't seem like I can capitalize on them. Both are, to me, incredible attractive, smart, classy, etc. One just graduated, one will be in grad school. One of them I would flirt with, she would flirt back, somewhat dirty while talking on facebook. We would see each other in classes, etc. We went out to lunch. Seems like directly after that, the possibility tanked Another one I met back in January at a resturant/bar. We had gone to high school together and never met. We hit it off/flirted. We talked online (dirty as hell too), etc. She came into town for a couple of weeks, we hung out like every day for the first week. Did a ton of fun stuff. She would text me stuff like "flashes of last night keep running through my mind" ... "I wish you were here" ... "I wanna spend as much time as possible with you"... Really like the girl Wound up hooking up, a lot. Then after we had a little chat and I told her I wasn't just interested in the 2-week long summer romance, it dropped off. Well, I was honest...right? I sent her a text, I said..."did I do something?" .... "I just have a phobia of commitment - her" (She got out of a relationship back in feb). So that night she sent me a text and then we hung out again. Laughed, had fun, thought everything was smooth. From then on, I have hardly heard from her or seen her. She was texting me off the hook. Now, nothing. Even if I send. I feel like other than school, I am going nowhere socially. No great friends (I guess I am working on that, but still feel like I am having for force myself in) and piss poor skills with women. The fuck do I do? I'm really pissed that I even bothered with this girl...and allowed myself to get my hopes up. She is the girl that I see that one time and know I could have a good time with her...in every aspect. to clarify: i am not putting a halo around this girl. I just meant that she seemed like that kind of girl...the one I couldn't pick out a flaw Someone hit me with the cane of socialite...i'm fucking sick of being the guy in the corner.