Well I stated here a couple of months ago that I was dating a girl that had a boyfriend. Shes been with him for 7 years and shes 23 and hes 57. Do the math, I'm very curious on how a 50 year old would approach a 16 year old for a date, anyways, he supports her a lot financially and shes been with him so long that she doesn't know what she would do if he wasn't there and they've been having problems the past year. Naturally when we started dating I tried to do the things her bf does, I tried supporting her financially and emotionally to let her know that there were other guys out there. We were dating for 2 months and I really liked her, I even dropped the "Love" phrase. Today she texted me (which was a shit way to do it IMO) that she didn't want a relationship with me and that what we're doing is bad. I am extremely heartbroken but its okay because I'm a positive person and we had a great few months together, also because I have a lot going on right now with work, school, and some grad school stuff. I even had plans on what to do on Valentines Day and her Bday, and I told her (not as a last ditch effort to get her but its just my nature that if I planned it for you, its yours). I knew it'd end badly and I knew what I was getting myself into but I didn't know it'd hurt this much. Thanx for reading OT, just needed to vent in some manner.