Valentines Day...

Discussion in 'Vaginarium' started by BradUF, Feb 4, 2007.

  1. BradUF

    BradUF Guest

    If I am dating a girl and only have for a little bit would it be to forward to ask her to do something on this day? I am thinking about brining something up for sometime next week about doing something. Not sure what and not sure how much this day should mean to people just dating. I figure I will wait until the end of the day and just bring it up. I kinda wanna secure her before she makes plans with someone else.

    Also, would this day be a bad time to move things forward with her?
     
  2. demosnat

    demosnat New Member

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    A. blalablalblablah generic "why I hate v-day and its implications for feminism"
    B. do somthing with her...its sweet, and she is more than likely hopeing that you do. This day is really ONLY for people who just started dating..in my experience, V-day stops mattering after the first year (maybe they just get discouraged from v-day by dating a hard line feminist like myself?) Try and make a joke out of it.
    C. yes. its like prom for grownups
     
  3. MattThom01

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    You're worrying about her getting with someone else because of the so-called holiday?

    Come on man, it's just another day
     
  4. BradUF

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    Oh, no Im not worried she will stop dating me because of the day. I just worried she might make plans or something on that day. Also, I feel like this might be a good day to may move things forward somewhat..
     
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  5. Ford4Life

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    If you are dating, make plans. This ain't that hard, and doesn't have to be something big. Go out to dinner, better yet, make dinner for her. Send some flowers to her at work, etc.
     
  6. BradUF

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    Don't you think that is a bit extreme since we have only had 3 dates?
     
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    id just surprise her with somethig little, yet sweet...maybe DIAB :dunno: :mamoru: jk
     
  8. bloodredsakura

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    Make plans to take her out to dinner that night, italian food or a steakhouse always work nicely. Give her some flowers. Maybe bring her back to your place afterwards to watch a movie and cuddle up on the couch...that'll give you the oppurtunity to move things forward a bit...whether it's sex or just finalizing the relationship deal. It's a simple night that she will really appreciate.
     
  9. Ford4Life

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    No. I'm curious, how old are you?
     
  10. demosnat

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    Just do somthing low key. girls love this crap. Its so we can tell all of our girl friends how sweet our bf is. This will totally seal the relationship.
    My Vday will probably consist of:
    Sushi
    Coffee
    Happy fun drug time
    wrist restraints.
     
  11. VashTheStampede

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    If you just started dating her, and neither of you are dating around......then it's a 99% chance that she's waiting on you to make plans with her for V-day.
     
  12. Yail Bloor

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    V-Day is basically meaningless in your situation.

    Have you had sex with this girl?

    The worst thing you could do is some sort of declaration of your feelings for her. You should escalate the relationship physically and let her escalate it emotionally.

    V-Day is just a bunch of unnecessary pressure in your situation and I would ignore it completely.

    Any time you interact with this woman, you need to ask yourself "What is it that I hope to accomplish?"

    With a V-Day date, what exactly would you hope to accomplish?
     
  13. BradUF

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    Mostly use it as a way to speed things up.
     
  14. MattThom01

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    so then, change your thinking. Your next date should be used to escalate things, regardless of what day it is
     
  15. Ford4Life

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    Speed what up? A real relationship or just trying to get into her pants?
     
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    :rofl: :rofl:

    well thats a new one. :coolugh:
     
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    Hell no, I've sent women flowers at work, they will always remember that. ;)
     
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