The SO and I have been together going on 2 years now. Our sex life is great. I am much more experienced than her which makes for a great time in showing her new things. The problem comes with her having vaginal stenosis. She has not had any type of cancer or radio therapy, so I'm not sure the exact cause of it, but I can only deal with the result. Because of this, she is extremely tight, and with me being a little above average in size, things can get kind of painful for her. We use a lot of lube, but she generally tears at the lower part of her vagina (not sure of the medical term for this part). Sex can often be cut short and she will have a down time of about 4-5 days. I guess I am here looking for anyone else that has had to deal with this and if they found any type of resolution to it. Thanks, Hibidi.