Vag Interview with MattThom01

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  1. MattThom01

    MattThom01 New Member

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    Pic?
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    Name?
    Matthew Don Thomas

    Age?
    24

    Gender?
    Male

    Ethnicity?
    Caucasian

    Religious Affiliation?

    Agnostic

    Siblings?

    One brother. One half-sister from my dad who is at least 10 years older and who I NEVER see.

    Ages of Siblings?
    23 (We are 11 months apart). See above for the age of the half-sister.

    Where raised?
    Lisbon, Iowa (itty bitty town of about 2000 people)

    Level and place of education?

    BA in Psychology and Applied Philosophy, Mount Mercy College in Cedar Rapids, IA.

    Occupation?
    Working at a daycare right now, looking to get a job at the University of Iowa Hospital

    Hobbies?
    Bowling, pool, video games, home theater, tv, movies, hanging out with friends, reading, intelligent debate/discussions…pets, animals, learning about things that interest me (Wikipedia is my friend!)

    Sexual preference?

    Heterosexual

    Measurements?

    5 feet, 5 inches tall. 90 pounds, not sure on exact measurements of endowment, I’m average.

    Best experience with SO's?
    First time having sex (and then the regular sex for the rest of the relationship)

    Worst experience with SO's?

    Breakup of the first relationship, when my SO and I both realized that I was starting to like someone else more than the gf. Sad, but a relief at the same time.

    Fantasy Date?
    I don’t really have a fantasy date per se, unless you count the one where I am with a gorgeous, perfect for me woman and win it big at the casino…

    Tell us about your childhood?
    Some stuff I don't remember, but you might find interesting: I was born 3 months early at less than 2 pounds. I had surgery performed on my head to to plates of my skull growing together in a weird way that would have caused brain damage. So I now have a bumpy head. I also had ankle surgery (well, on my Achilles Tendon) of my right leg due to the tendon being too tight. In second grade, I was diagnosed with ADHD.

    Not too much else to tell. Went to school, listened to what my parents told me, did homework, etc. I would often take a book to school and read during recess. Nothing else really stands out as being worthy of noting.

    What do you think contributed to your like/dislike of women or men?
    Hormones, genetics, culture, etc. Don’t want to turn this into a debate over sexual orientation.

    Best Relationship?
    First relationship. So nice and fun to experience all the firsts with someone else who was going through the same thing…first kiss, first touches, first sex, etc.

    Worst Relationship?

    Wasn’t a relationship per se, but I fooled myself into thinking it was. I was kind of seeing this high maintenance girl and didn’t realize that she was being slightly demeaning and disrespectful towards me. Was not too bad, but it was a learning experience.

    Are your siblings like you at all in their relationships?

    Probably, but we don’t exactly tell each other every detail about our relationships.

    How open minded are you?

    Sexually? Not so much. Non-sexually? Well, I’d like to say I’m open-minded, but tolerant would probably be a better description. I am fine with most things people choose to do, but I also tend to distance myself from those who are vastly different from me. Mostly consists of a “You do your thing, I’ll do my thing, and we’ll all be fine” type of attitude.

    Have you ever been involved in a 3some?
    No

    What do you look for in another partner?
    Compatibility. I could write a book about all the things I want in a partner, but we probably all know them…similar personality/interests, sense of humor, physical attraction, etc.

    Do you think a persons promiscuity or lack there of has to do with their childhood?
    It depends. I definitely think that being exposed to sexual stuff at an inappropriate age can mess up a person, but your average kid? I don’t see it having that big of an impact. I think parenting is one of the biggest influences on promiscuity in teenagers.

    Have you used online sites for the reasons of getting sex or dates or both?
    Yes, nothing exciting to tell about it though.

    What's your favorite body part of the opposite sex?
    Breasts

    Describe your type of partner?
    Ideal type? Shorter than me (probably around 5-2 or 5-3), C or D cup, long hair, love of physical contact, drug and disease free, no children, no major emotional baggage (divorce, mental illness, psycho exes, etc). Intelligent, successful, independent, mature. It would almost be easier to describe by the process of elimination/disqualification.

    What type of partner you actually date?
    Any woman that I find reasonably attractive and can get along with. You never know who you might click well with, so why limit myself. Dates don’t always have to be super intense

    Any words of advice for the Vag lurkers?
    Don’t put up with shit from people. I don’t mean that in the juvenile way, just that you should not allow yourself or allow other people to get you in shitty situations. If a partner is causing tons of drama, GTFO of it immediately. When posting, please use proper grammar and syntax.
     
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  2. fray

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    good interview, matt. How's the new job going?
     
  3. MattThom01

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    It's cool. Very low stress...loud at sometimes, but hey, that's what you get with kids. Very helpful to have a 4 day work week since I am still looking for better jobs.
     
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    holy crap 90 lbs
     
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    MattThom How many girls have you been with, and how many relationships have you been in? How old were you for your first relationship (first being the one listed above, not some grade 6 hand holding thing just to clarify)?
     
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    @ 5'5"...yea...


    bro you need to go eat something...
     
  8. Lucky Penny

    Lucky Penny Mr. cut me some slack cause I don't wanna go back,

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    Shit, I'm 5'5... I wish I was 90 lbs!! :rofl:

    Anyway, good interview Matt :big grin:

    What was the best date you've ever been on and why?
    What's your favorite breakfast cereal?
    If you could live anywhere, where would you live?
     
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    thanks for participating but we need more dirt, man

    i spilled my shit out during my interview -- just kinda forget that people are reading it and just let it all out
     
  10. LBFilmGuy

    LBFilmGuy LOL why u mad tho?

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    5' 5"...90 pounds?

    Holy christ that's lighter than most girls that height.

    :o
     
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    Holy fucking 90? I'm 6'1" 190 and I feel skinny as fuck sometimes.

    ^ Also interested in XaP!UM's question.
     
  12. MattThom01

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    Ok, to answer Xap's question:

    Have had sex with one person, fooled around with numerous others (have not kept count). Relationships...one serious one, a few casual ones that did not last long.

    Aqua, what do you want details on?
     
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    How old were you when you lost it?
     
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    Oh, darn, knew I forgot to answer a question...see what happens when I post right after waking up?

    First sex was at 17 I think.
     
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    XaPU!M Active Member

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    How long did that relationship last?
     
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    year and a half.

    Edit: added some more details, sorry if it doesn't flow so well.
     
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    Just clarification...since i thought you couldnt be both...one is believing that there is no God and the other does not believe in God? I could be totally wrong, but i thought a person was one or the other, not both

    and i'm not trying to turn this into a religious debate, i'm just honestly curious since i dont know
     
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    nigga needs to eat more and hit the weights...
     
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    Come on, Matty Ice. Give us moar. Fayfay's interview was pretty detailed.
     
  21. LBFilmGuy

    LBFilmGuy LOL why u mad tho?

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    dawt.

    His open hand is his biggest body part :noes:
     
  22. MattThom01

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    OK, a few things while I eat...

    Regarding the pics, I only see the one I posted, but if there are other links up, sorry. It took me a few tries to get it to show up. I don't see the broken links, even when I edit the post.

    Second, regarding my parents' divorce, it happened last year, so by the time it happened/started happening, I had already moved out. I still have a good relationship with my dad (or at least the same as it ever was), and my stepdad is a great guy.

    My cats are good, they are doing just fine living with my dad. It only took them a few days to take over his house. I need to buy some more food and take it down to them this weekend.

    As far as the online dating....I've used Myspace and Plenty of Fish to find local people...met a few girls, but nothing really happened with it...I would meet them, but feel no spark.

    Favorite breakfast cereal? Hmm...those strawberry frosted mini wheats? I'm not much of a breakfast guy, I tend to eat lunch food for breakfast (or cookies or ice cream....)

    Regarding first gf and the other girl who I started liking more...she was a friend of the gf, started hanging out as a group, and I realized that she had more in common with me than my gf. She was more of an introvert, more of your typical nerd, more conservative socially, and she was CUTE. It kinda went from us hanging out in a group to me always wanting to hang out as a group to me asking the friend to hang out if my gf wasn't available. No cheating occurred, as it was the classic story of me liking her, but her only liking me as a friend...

    Anyways, it kinda culminated in me stopping by to hang out during the last period of their last day of school...my gf went one way when the day ended, and the friend went another way...guess which way Matt wanted to go? The gf broke up with me that afternoon after I dropped her off at home.

    Anyways, I kept hanging out with the friend...I remember one time, she was leaving my house, I was saying goodbye, and out of my mouth slips "I love you". Thankfully she ignored it, but I was mentally kicking myself for saying it.

    We drifted apart after she and I were both in college, she found a bf.

    Just one of those things we have all been through.

    I love it when people ask me the 'where do you see yourself in the future?" question...I just want to say "I don't know, I'll let you know when I get there".

    Basically, I'm not that future oriented. I live my life pretty much day by day. Hell, I don't think I really plan anything more than a month or two in advance...

    Dating...hmmm, I don't know if I have ever really thought of myself as "going on a date" or "dating someone". I have an absolutely horrible habit of getting lonely for company, meeting someone new, hanging out with them once or twice, then pretty much vanishing from contact after the loneliness is satiated. I tell people "95% of the time I am fine being by myself". I don't know if I am smewhat antisocial, or just have yet to meet someone I actually want to spend lots of time with...

    Well, I think that's good for now...I need to go take a shower before the new Mythbusters comes on.

    Do you guys want me to keep answering in new posts, or continuously edit my interview?

    If anyone would actually like to chat with me over IM, send me a privte message, I'll give you my AIM or Yahoo name.
     
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  24. MattThom01

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    not at this point
     

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