Vag Interview with ForgottenSpiral

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  1. ForgottenSpiral

    ForgottenSpiral Hope and Irony OT Supporter

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    Name?
    Jacob

    Age?
    29

    Gender?
    Male

    Ethnicity?
    White

    Religious Affiliation?
    None (atheist)

    Siblings?
    None or five depending on how you look at it. I was raised as an only child, but I have three half-siblings and two step-siblings.

    Ages of Siblings?
    My half-siblings are about 15 years older than me (in their mid-forties). My step-siblings are my age (late twenties/early thirties).

    Where raised?
    I grew up in Virginia. Fairfax, Falls Church, and Vienna.

    Level and place of education?
    Graduated with a double major from University of Houston.

    Occupation?
    My job title is Technical Writer, but my actual work is turning into Configuration Management.

    Hobbies?
    Basically any form of entertainment media (video games, books, movies, etc.). I also enjoy playing board games.

    Sexual preference?
    100% Women. Although I do have an appreciation for the male form in certain shapes, I've never found a man sexually attractive.

    Measurements?
    5'11", 145 lbs., and 6".

    Best and worst experiences with SO's?
    Best:

    For my 27th birthday, I came home to find a very real looking treasure map. I followed it and the other various clues around town until I came to my girlfriend sitting on a grassy hill with a huge basket of food and presents. Then after we ate and I opened presents (she got me a PSP!) we went back to my place so I could open my last present. She was wearing a corset. :naughty:

    Worst:
    Right around the time I turned 21, I had been dating this girl for about 10 months. We fought a lot and it was a very intense relationship. We got an apartment together at around 8 months together. I started to have suspicions because she was acting more and more distant, so I cracked and read her diary, which is something I had never done before that. Inside the diary was detailed descriptions of when she had recently fucked my best friend at the time. She talked about how he kept asking her when she was going to leave me for him too.

    Fantasy Date?
    Um... I guess my fantasy date would probably involve doing lots of normal things like dinner and a movie, but include taking some exhibitionist pictures of my gf along the way, fooling around a bit in semi-public places, and eventually just pulling over on a dark road somewhere and fucking her outside my car.

    Tell us about your childhood?
    I was born in Hawaii, but my family moved to San Antonio, Texas immediately afterwards. My parents divorced when I was 4 or 5 and when I was 6 my mom and I moved to Virginia to be close to her parents. After that I only saw my dad for a month each summer and usually I spent about half of that time at friends' or my sister's because my dad didn't feel comfortable bringing his women home when I was there. My dated for a couple years, but then realized she had horrible taste in men and just stopped dating altogether and spending all her time with me.

    My mom was basically my best friend until I was a teenager. I always had other friends too, but she and I spent every day together watching TV and movies and whatnot. When I got to the point where I wanted to start dating, I realized how ill-equiped I was because my whole life I'd been trained to be what my mom thought was the perfect man. Unfortunately, being in a codependent, emotionally incestuous relationship did not actually help me get girls. So I started distancing myself from my mother and trying to learn for myself who I wanted to be.

    What do you think contributed to your like/dislike of women or men?
    My relationship with my parents. Duh. I got abandonment issues from my father and co-dependency issues from my mother. That makes me one clingy son-of-a-bitch, although I've been in therapy for years and I think my clingyness is now within healthy limits. Obviously due to my poor relationship models, I've also had a number of unhealthy relationships with chaotic women, which also play into my issues. I tend to get along really well with women and have no problems getting close to them. I tend to be distrusting of men and it takes me a long time to get close to them.

    Best Relationship?
    My current relationship is definitely my best one. I wouldn't be in it otherwise. There are definitely qualities that I miss from past relationships, but on the whole, my current relationship definitely comes out on top.

    Worst Relationship?
    That would be the one where the girl fucked my best friend.

    Are your siblings like you at all in their relationships?
    I honestly have no idea.

    How open minded are you?
    Depends on the subject. I'm very open minded in some ways, but very closed minded in others. For instance, I will try new foods (just not meat), pretty much anything sexual that doesn't cause harm, etc. I'm very set in my beliefs though so I'm closed minded when it comes to things like Santa Claus. I don't believe in a man living in the clouds granting wishes, I'm a firm believer that video games do not make kids commit real life violence, and that kind of thing.

    Have you ever been involved in a 3some?
    Nope. Came real close one night, but one of the girls was too chicken. Had offers from a m/f couple, but I don't want to touch my friend's peen.

    What do you look for in another partner?
    Consistent honest and open communication
    No drinking, drugs or smoking
    Attractive
    Cares about self-improvement physically and mentally
    Doesn't hang out with exs
    Has some common interests
    Loves sex and is open minded in the metaphorical bedroom
    Is a nice and optimistic person
    Isn't religious
    Prefers intimate settings over crowded ones
    Enjoys giving as much as receiving
    Is open to the idea of having children, but doesn't already have them

    Do you think a persons promiscuity or lack there of has to do with their childhood?
    I think a significant portion of a person's personality is defined by their childhood. I do not, however, think you can make generalized statements based on individual historical facts.

    Have you used online sites for the reasons of getting sex or dates or both?
    Dating, yes. Sex, no.

    What's your favorite body part of the opposite sex?
    Absolutely the tits. Nothing hotter to me than a perfect set of breasts.

    Describe your type of partner?
    Kind, generous, sexual, possessive, skinny, short, submissive, clean, open, honest, good with money, atheist, dependent, shy

    What type of partner you actually date?
    Independent, dominant, critical, opinionated


    Any words of advice for the Vag lurkers?
    Run. Run and Don't Look Back.

    I'm kidding. My real advice is this: Do what you think is right and learn from your mistakes. No one is perfect, but if you can do those two things, you're leaps and bounds ahead of most people. Also being able to learn from others is a big one too.
     
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  2. saosko

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    Good read. Where are the pictures?
     
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    Why don't you eat meat? Have you always not eaten meat?
     
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    :h5:

    fuckin awesome.
     
  7. ForgottenSpiral

    ForgottenSpiral Hope and Irony OT Supporter

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    I'm at work right now. I'll update with pics when I get home. ;)
    Ethical reasons. I've only been a vegetarian for four months.
     
  8. ForgottenSpiral

    ForgottenSpiral Hope and Irony OT Supporter

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    :werd: :h5:
     
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    :ugh2: @ your "best friend" situation back in the day

    I would've put someone in the hospital over that shit.
     
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    just_another_on New Member

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    Yeah, no tolerance for that.
     
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    ForgottenSpiral Hope and Irony OT Supporter

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    Oh trust me, I seriously considered it. The girl I dated for 10 months was fucked for doing what she did, but I'd been friends with that guy for years. :madfawk:
     
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    If you were stuck on a deserted island who would you rather have with you: Wilson from Cast Away or Jerry of Tom & Jerry?
     
  13. ForgottenSpiral

    ForgottenSpiral Hope and Irony OT Supporter

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    A volleyball with a face or a cartoon animal? Somehow I think talking to an animated creature would be way crazier than an inanimate object. And I'd like to stay as sane as possible.
     
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    Wilson it is :rofl::rofl::rofl:
     
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    IFL :love:

    on 1?

    back in a bit! :big grin:
     
  16. saosko

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    Your bones called and would like to have some meat. :mamoru:

    Wow my jokes are the lame.
     
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    Savage5point0 Im an asshole.

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    It gets a bit old with every single person saying their current relationship is the best. Its just because she hasnt fucked some other dude behind your back yet.


    You dont drink, smoke, or do drugs, and all your hobbies involve gaming. Saturday night must be a blast for you and your friends :mamoru: :hug:
     
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  19. ForgottenSpiral

    ForgottenSpiral Hope and Irony OT Supporter

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    :rofl: Not all of my relationships ended because they fucked someone else. I have one ex that I remember rather fondly actually. She was a great girlfriend and in some ways is better than my current, but we just weren't right for each other. My current gf and I are more compatable in the more important areas.

    And of course every says their current relationship is the best. Why wouldn't it be? If your current relationship isn't the best, you shouldn't be in it.
     
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    ForgottenSpiral Hope and Irony OT Supporter

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    :rofl: I love it when people think you can't have fun without drinking. How ridiculous. :mamoru: :hug:
     
  21. saosko

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    sXe bro? or just cuz?
     
  22. ForgottenSpiral

    ForgottenSpiral Hope and Irony OT Supporter

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    Well I was sXe until I was 18. Then I went nuts and got crazy into drugs. My life started going downhill so I stopped doing everything and I've been clean for over 8 years now.
     
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    Savage5point0 Im an asshole.

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    I dont think I can actually :hs: Well maybe more like I can have some amount of fun without drinking, but if I drink then it will be 10X more fun.
     
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    ForgottenSpiral Hope and Irony OT Supporter

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    Well I'm quite the opposite. I enjoy myself (and my life) significantly more without drinking. ;)
     
  25. saosko

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    At least you can say you've tried.

    I hate the people that judge without even experimenting.
     

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