Fucking dilemma. I think im using my new girlie as a rebound for my ex and I promised myself I won't ever do that to someone after being cheated on twice already . What should i do? tell her how I feel or just keep this relationship going and see where its headed? I think im still in love with my ex even though shes untrustworthy and a cheat. Tonight she phoned me and I lied to her i was going to sleep. I feel bad. Would you guys ever use a rebound?