Well i talked to her as suggested in the original thread. She doesnt like the idea of me performing oral on her. Im not sure why but she said jsut dont worry abotu it etc. It may be because she is so hyper tickleish that shes afraid it will just tickle to much. It took me forever to get her to let me include her lower body in a full body rub. Anyways, i did get her to admit that she would like if i could go for 15-20 min instea dof what were currently doing. She is standing firm on the no internet meds idea. Which i guess is for the better She has agreed to work with me on start stop squeeze method. Or what ever its called that we saw online. I havnt been able to do the jerk for 15-20mins thing because im either at work or with her so its not really an option. I have however started kegels again. Not to sure how these work or if i do them right but ill be trying it. I have also set up a dr appointment with a urologist on sept 7. Ill continue doing what i am until then and hope to get some answers from the dr when i go in. Ill have an update somwhere around then unless somthing changes before then. Also one random thing we noticed was when its anal i can go much longer and usually end it because she says its starting to hurt.