I sent her a PM on the forum we're both on earlier yesterday. Not really a big deal, wasn't even really expecting a response. I ended up getting one back and here is the lsat paragraph of it: ___________________________ "I really don't have time for too much right now and I hope you understand that. I'm starting to try to apply to law schools and all and that takes a lot of time writing essays and preparing for that. Plus, I let someone talk me into where I'd go for undergrad and I don't plan to do that again. I really need a lot of time to just relax and figure out what I'm going to do next year. " ___________________________ How should I take that considering everything else that has gone on recently? And no, nothing about any of the above was in the one I sent her, hence why I wasn't expecting a response. I know she's starting to apply for law school...that definitely wasn't anything new to me. I didn't know someone had talked her into her undergrad school because we've talked about that sort of before and it never came up. Either way, that certainly isn't/wasn't my intention. We've talked about some of the schools she is going to apply to and some of them are out of state and that didn't really bother me. I can pretty much graduate whenever I want (I've had engouh credits for about a year now, but it isn't for a degree I really want) To be honset, if things were going fine I would have no problem either a) moving somewhere else for a while for variety if nothing else or b) possibly staying home and making the drive once in a while. However, I know that would depend largely on her end to as far as how that would go. Seeing as we've hung out a few times now and the first kiss is here and gone, would it be okay to just bring that up and talk about it or do I take that is she doesn't want anything further? I know if that is brought up then the whole cat is out of the bag as far as how we feel and where we see things going. Do I respond to the PM?