my current problem yesterday was this: http://forums.offtopic.com/showthread.php?t=1704517 ive just now talked to her again on the phone and she says that she isnt going out with this guy, her friends and family are full of it, etc. i felt awesome...but it went to shit. we were talkin alright, but i could tell she was distracted and talking to other people, when on the phone. so we get to now....she is now ignoring me. when i call, she says 'cant talk now' and hangs up. it is confirmed by her brother's fiance its true, shes dating this other guy and apparently hes bein suicidal and shit...2 of her other friends (both who dating this guy before) also told me that yes, she is lieing to me and yes, they are dating. at first, i thought that a relationsihp between me and this girl was possible to contiinue if we took a break, but now, i just dont see that happening. I dont know what to do but im guessing that everyone will tell me to dump this chick. im also having a girl im good friends with here were i live call her. she says that my..well i guess she is now my offical ex gf...she says that she is an asshole. i dont know exactly what was said but thats what im told. right now, even i can see that the best solution is to probablly dump her and forget about it and never date her again. therefore, im going to ask ahead of time, how can i do this as ill probablly be thinking about her and stuff like that. thanks for anyones help.