the guy's thread about not sleeping at his girl's house made me think of this. i like to think of myself as a guy that has a lot of upside to offer in a relationship. however, i will also be the first to admit that i have some unsual things about me. some that i wonder how a girl dating me would not be extremely annoyed by it. the obvious one is that i cannot sleep over. never, and i mean NEVER, have i spent an entire night at a girl's place. i may stay late. wait for them to sleep, and then leave. they either stay at my place or oh well. once i drove to st pete. hung out w. my ex who lives there and some friends. when we were done i went home. i had never even seen her place after 2 months of dating. she broke up w. me the next day. i listen to music to fall asleep. i have a hard time falling asleep other wise. the kicker? i listen to metal. im talking behemoth, amon amorth, at the gates type of metal. i did this first time this girl i was dating spent the night. she looked at me like . the next morning she told me "next time i spend the night you cannot play that shit". i broke up w. her later that day. my current gf actually puts up w. it. i have no idea how. i was even ready to compromise and pop in some thrice or deftones but she said it was fine. (I dont think this one is TOO bad) i HATE girls that do not wake up when the alarm first goes off. not bc i care if they do it on their own. but bc everytime they hit snooze it wakes me up again. i dated a girl who did this. i didnt say anything day one. day two i explanied to her that i do not feel like waking up every 10 min for the next 45min bc she wont wake up. third day i broke up w. her. my dog sleeps w. me. he's a frenchbulldog. he likes to cuddle at my hip and snores a little. a girl i was not dating but came over to spend the night asked me to remove him. i gave her the option of sleeping on the couch or me driving her home since she was drunk. i drove her home and we never spoke again.