Unsatisfied woman =(

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  1. Nikolette

    Nikolette New Member

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    ok...So Im a woman, 22 years...I m goodlooking and am pretty sexy, not to sound conceieted just telling u to let u know its not that my bf doesnt find me attaractive ...However, My bf and I have lived together for about 1 year, together for 1 1/2 years and theres a HUGE lack of affection. We also have an age diff...he's now 30. He doesnt really act 30, he still likes to have fun and everything, he's also not overly serious but he never initiates anymore. I want to be wanted again, not necc having sex all the time but at least making out and fooling around would be good enough. All these other men notice me all the time and it upsets me bc my own bf apparently doesnt. Even his friend always say "wow, ur a lucky guy" Ive talked to him, tried it at diff times of the day...its like he's comfortable and doesnt need to do anything. Believe me, he'll never turn down a b/j...but I have needs too! Guys arent the only ones who get horny. Its really upsetting and starting to affect our relationship...any advice would be appreciated. thanx
     
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    talk to HIM about it
     
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    JohnJohnJohnson Effetely Sipping My Latte OT Supporter

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    btw, how does the "." thing work? after one person does it are you not supposed to do it again? thx
     
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    Maybe you should be initiating, regardless of how it makes you feel. Just treat him like a pornstar(smack my ass, pull my hair, treat me like a slut), he'll know what to do. Talk to him, be verbal.....it would work for me
     
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    When I do treat him like that, he laughs..he thinks im being silly..so weird bc in past men go crazy for it but when Im sexy with him he laughs...i dunno
     
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    Why is he so fucking satisfied? At 30 his libido needs some stimulation. Does he masturbate? If so, tell him to knock it off and spend more time on you. And let him know that he doesn't get any more BJ's until you get some action. The rule in my house is that she gets at LEAST one orgasm before I get mine.

    I'm curious as to why he seems to have no sex drive, that's not normal. Dare I say it? Do you think he could be cheating on you? Not to be totally negative but ... :dunno:
     
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    Start to "Date" Him again.
    Take him on "Dates"
    Movies, Bars, Restaurants then go home and have some fun.
    believe me it works ! ! !
     

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