Unable to sprout a 2nd time...

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  1. So recently it seems, when I'm having sex with the gf, I can only go a round -- not a round 2 like I used to. I mean I come and I can't get it to come back up for a second time and I'm wondering why this is... is it something to do with me, or her or both of us?
     
  2. lamour

    lamour New Member

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    SERIOUSLY? how long has it been since you were last able to go twice without a break. Basically, most people find this has a lot to do with age, physical fitness, frequency of sex, position, and diet.

    If your general health is decreasing, i.e. your not working out or getting your heart rate up everything is gonna start to fall off, this is just part of getting older. Very few men are able to orgasm twice in a row and stay hard after cuming the first time if they don't take care of their bodies.

    If you are seriously really in shape and this is just an attraction or position action, my advice would be to get on top of her a fuck her in a position with a lot of visual stimulus and thrusting action, that works for most men, or whatever position turns you on the most.
     
  3. Falconer

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    I'd say that's exceeding rare, ESPECIALLY if the guy is over about 20 years old.

    It's pretty normal to be able to cum, "recharge", and then get it up and fuck again. Depending on stress/anxiety/age/mood/fitness/health/diet/etc., this "recharge" period may take anywhere from 15 min to 2 hours to 24 hours, and will generally increase as you age.

    Actually, your dick is supposed to get soft after you cum. I'd be super worried if it didn't (google "priapism") and I would probably go to the emergency room.

    Cliffs Notes:

    - Relax. You're fine.
     
  4. NiggaPHX420

    NiggaPHX420 OT Supporter

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    Well on that note, Ive heard from guy friends and my female friends that they or their partner can go multiple times without going limp. My best chick friend was with a guy who orgasmed 4 times and was still hard, she had to call it quits.

    Would be nice to be able to bust and immediately be back in the game...
     
  5. NiggaPHX420

    NiggaPHX420 OT Supporter

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    I guess 2 isnt a big deal. I do that occassionally. It be awesome to be able to fuck for hours tho :eek5:
     
  6. Ideotique

    Ideotique Drinking on monday nights does not make me an alco

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    Yep.

    I can't stay hard after ejaculation.

    give me 10-15 minutes though and I'm ready to go. And repeat 3-4 times.
     
  7. Abomb

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    if you are having sex with multiple female partners in one sitting you should have no problems resuming erection almost immediately
     
  8. GammaRadiation

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    I usually go at least semi soft after cumming and lose a lot of sensitivity. After about 15-20min or if she goes down on me I can get him back up.

    After three or four in a few hours my balls begin to hurt, though.
     
  9. Viper

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    Why would that be awesome? :rofl:

    That would fucking suck ass.
     
  10. Toda Party

    Toda Party .....

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    I can do it, but my diet is good and I get plenty of exercise.
     
  11. Yail Bloor

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    I once came a total of 5 times on one erection when I was 18
     
  12. Ichabod Crane

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    ever consider he might be lying?
     
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    If we are laying on our side and I'm behind looking at that ass. You can be damn well sure I'm back in the game pronto!
     
  14. Falconer

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    Damn, bunch of porn stars in this thread :mamoru:

    The point is, even if you can't cum twice without losing your boner in between, it doesn't make you abnormal.

    When I was a teenager, like 16 or so, I could cum twice off of the same erection (masturbating 2-for-1 w00t! :rofl:).

    Other than that my record is having sex 7 time in one day (but only cumming 5 times... sometimes, for us non-porn stars, your dick gets to a point where it says "dude, I'm not gonna cum right now... I need a little break").
     
  15. Simple

    Simple Sexy Beatch

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    over one sex session i can probably have intercourse 2-3 times and do other things over an 8 hour span.
     
  16. Helmet

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    damn, ejaculating several times from one boner lol. sounds like something is wrong.i usually bust and in the span of a minute i go limp and hard again. most times i busted in a day was about 22times. with a 3hour break to go eat and check the area out. next day it just felt tired but still went 5more times in the morning lol.
     
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    Viagra! ... Stays hard after you cum and you can keep going .. or even cialis, has an 16 hr half life so can go even longer if you have the energy/stamina
     
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    Haven't read any of the replies, just putting this out there...

    I'm 18 years old, in top tier physical shape, and I can go 2 rounds most of the time without taking a break. Usually the 2nd time takes me forever to come again, but I can do it. My ex gf found this to be extremely crazy yet awesome, and even said that it goes against a "psychological complex" that states I should have to rest before going again...

    Who knows, I beat the odds...
     
  19. Deckard

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    No dude, it wouldn't. Not at all. After about 45 minutes to an hour, my gf gets really sore, and that kills the mood. Fast.
     
  20. Viper

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    You guys worry about the wrong things. I swear. :rofl:

    Instead of worrying about being able to go again, maybe you should worry about doing a thorough job the first time so that you don't have to go again right away.

    Just a thought.
     
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  22. zipzooka

    zipzooka sticking feathers up your butt does not make you a

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    If you can't get it up again straight away, don't sweat it. If she expects it of you, slap her in the mouth and tell her to be happy with what she gets.

    Seriously though, if you're not averse to it (and were wearing a condom, for the squeamish), why not just go down on her or finger her for awhile until the general salutes again?
     
  23. chlywly

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    I've had multiple orgasms/ejaculations from a single boner, takes a long ass time though... I'm not 18 anymore either. It makes a diff.
     

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