So my roommate and I are really good friends and have known each other for quite a while. Anyways, we both have boyfriends (who are both good friends as well) so ever since my roommate and her bf got together (over a year) ALL she's done is complain about him. He's basically a dick to her and now since all of his friends have moved away he started acting better to her. (That was after she's threaten to leave him SEVERAL times) so I'm house sitting this week and we planned on hanging out last night since we haven't seen each other for a while. Her bf is a total loser (dropped out of school without telling anyone, doesn't have a job, parents pay for everything, lives at home, spoiled, etc) and I really can't stand him I think because of the way she treats her and how all she did was complain about him. Plus he's kind of a dick to my bf too...kinda just uses him when he has nothing else to do. So she decided to stay with him (even though all her friends said to leave him) and last night he had some kind of mental breakdown and wanted to come up and see her. Even though we already had plans, I said it was okay and that way she could comfort him. So we decided to hang out today instead. Well this morning I get a text telling me he is staying until tomorrow morning and that is it okay if he comes along to hang out with us. Of course I said no and was upset. She said "well i can't force him to leave...sorry" so of course I wrote something back along the lines "thanks for ditching me twice that really hurts, blah blah blah" and she wrote me back and said I was immature and what not. Am I wrong for being pissed? I know texting isn't the best way to talk, but I was on my way out..This isn't the first time she's ditched me for him. Cliffs: Roommate's bf is a dick to her, she ditches me for him AGAIN. She knows how I feel about him and it's really starting to affect our relationship.