ugg gf of 11 months wants to take a break

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  1. chan815

    chan815 Skol Drunk

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    ok so my life has been pretty stressfull, grades, college, surgery, etc. and tonight my gf of 11 months said that recently its been too stressfull for her to worry about me, with grades, and also deal with her stresses. so she wants to take a break from seeing each other. I told her that i cant really say no, so i agreed to it. hopefully we just wont see each other for a coupple weeks or somthing and then it will be back to normal...idk /end incoherent ramble


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  2. jmezz

    jmezz layin in bed stretchin my pumped quads for hours

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    In her eyes a "Break" means its over.
     
  3. giapia

    giapia Life is 10% what happens to you and 90% how you re

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    i hope you guys established the rules and boundaries for this "break"
     
  4. calipolo

    calipolo New Member

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    she wants to fuck other guys
     
  5. Guardfather

    Guardfather The Paradox

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    This is getting ridiculous. Responses like these should be kept to the OT forum. They're ignorant and quite possibly hurtful to some of those who post here.
     
  6. darnit

    darnit New Member

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    **cough***
    this is the spice area not the

    The Asylum
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    OT's Emotional hideout and/or Serious Dating Advice.
    Serious Discussions only.

    take your emtional hurt stuff there.
     
  7. PocoDiablo

    PocoDiablo New Member

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    I agree with the other posters. This means she is breaking up with you. She's done. Things probably got too serious, too boring, something.

    This happens all the time. Check out these articles I wrote about it and tell me what you think...

    These are in chronological order... did you already pass the first one?

    Help! My GF won't have sex with me any more. She says she's too tired, etc.
    http://www.friendzoned.com/forums/showthread.php?t=5

    My GF wants a break, is it really over?
    http://www.friendzoned.com/forums/showthread.php?t=4

    How do I win my GF back?
    http://www.friendzoned.com/forums/showthread.php?t=2

    So ... where do you stand?
     
  8. guiltybystand3r

    guiltybystand3r On a long enough timeline, the survival rate for e

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    Sorry man, "I need a break" is possibly the worst thing you can hear from a girlfriend because like everyone else has been saying it essentially means that the two of you are over and done with. There is such a small percentage of couples that actually get back together after their "break".

    I understand that her life is stressful enough without having to worry about you and your concerns, but thats what a relationship is. Caring about another person and being there for them when time get rough. If she is jumping ship at the first sign of rough seas then maybe its better off. Good luck with everything.
     
  9. RedVsBlue

    RedVsBlue Penguins > *

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    boo hoo, cry me a fucking river.

    Welcome to life, if you only want sugar coated truth enjoy your short stay.
     
  10. RedVsBlue

    RedVsBlue Penguins > *

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    There is no going back, even if you do go back together this part in your relationship will always remind you that you cant make it through the tough times. Your mind will wonder back to this point and wonder what she did, who she was with, and the why behind it all.

    Breaks dont exist...its over, let her know you are moving on.
     
  11. chan815

    chan815 Skol Drunk

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    meh, ill talk to her about it, and see what she says about it bieng "over" oh well
     
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    this girl owns you doesnt she?
     
  13. Vailripper

    Vailripper Daywalkers have feelings too.

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    If she is bailing at the first sign of you going through rough times, you're better off without her. If she honestly cared about you, she would stick with you through rough times, not bail. It's over, and that's a good thing. (long term)
     
  14. Guardfather

    Guardfather The Paradox

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    If they were intelligent responses then I wouldn't really care much about them being so harsh. But they're ignorant bullshit posted by simpletons who seem to think that a few experiences apply to everyone everywhere.

    So many people in the Vag lately are idiots with big mouths and very little, if any, solid advice or input to offer.
     
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  15. Pringles

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    ya I got dumped a while back. Shit was getting to real to fast. IE we were ready to move to the living together stage and right now in our lives that just wouldnt work. I'm happier with her as a friend, which we established. I'd like to consider her a good friend or something more than generic friend, but thats me thinking this relationship can still save my sad soul. Luckly that part of me is dieing more day by day.

    THank you time.
     

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