U ever wonder

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  1. purplebeast

    purplebeast The depths of hell and endless torture await all h

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    If ur one of those people destined to be alone or that end up lowering their standars in order not to end up alone?
     
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    No. I'd rather be a weirdo and scare little kids all day then settle with someone who I'd fight with all day.
     
  3. purplebeast

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    By setteling I dont mean someone u dont get along with. But rather to be w someone that does not full fill all ur expectations.
     
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    All I can say is be as picky as you and never settle for less. You will only end up unhappy in the end. Trust me
     
  5. Cerridwen

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    Are you ever going to find someone who meets all of your expectations though??

    Personaly, I know a couple of older guys who can't seem to find a woman. They annoy the hell out of me- they're whiny and 'oh why me' all of the time. Absolutely cannot stand it.
     
  6. I think that all depends on what your standards are in the first place. I also think that a lot of people have this fairy tale idea of what love is and how relationships should be, when the reality is that love and relationships take a lot of work, and its not going to be perfect 100% of the time.
     
  7. Cerridwen

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    I couldn't agree more. marriage and relationships are hard work,they aren't just going to go the way you want it to. It's just like life.
    There is no fairy tale perfect marriage. There SHOULD be arguments/disagreements and hard times. It just makes life sweeter imo. If you have everything handed to you, you're not going to truly appreciate what you have.
     
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    PuppyCat O.T. Mom

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    I used to wonder about it...I know I'll end being "that crazy old lazy who lives alone down at the end of the street, has all those cats and doesn't mow her front lawn."

    On a serious note, I enjoy being by myself. Less hassle. Less pain. My standards meter is fairly low...I like them breathing, intelligent, clean, and have some clue as to what is going on in the world around them.

    Really, how high are your standards?

    Nobody is perfect. Nobody.
     
  9. purplebeast

    purplebeast The depths of hell and endless torture await all h

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    Maybe my standards are too high, I dont know. Im not even positive exactly what Im looking for. I just know (or rather hope) I'll recognise it if/when I find her.
     
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    PuppyCat O.T. Mom

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    Sometimes it's just better to leave things to chance. You might very well meet someone who isn't drop dead gorgeous but has so many things going for her, in terms of personality, compassion, passion, intelligence and a smile that just melts your heart....Cupid does not have a timetable. I don't actively look, most of my b/fs have been pure chance.
     
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    I agree with this... and am beginning to realize it more and more... i've had two long term relationships (2 years and 1.5 years) in my life... one of them she ended... one of them I ended... i wish she had never ended the first one because i am CERTAIN i would have married her... i am beginning to wonder if i ended the second one for the right reasons... and that perhaps she was an equivalent to the first but i just wouldn't let myself believe it...

    Love is a fucked up thing... but when it comes... you know it... and when it leaves... you miss it... so don't let things like "looks" and such worry you... if she's hot enough to fall in love with to begin with... then she is hot enough... don't ever dump someone because you think you could find someone better looking...
     

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