SRS Two Girls?!

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  1. Ickyarkman

    Ickyarkman New Member

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    Okay OT this is my first OFFICIAL post :) and I'm asking for help!!!!

    Well, the title pretty much explains it. I've got two girls that really like me and this may sound dumb but I CANT CHOOSE BETWEEN THEM! These two girls are friends none the less.....AND they are almost exactly alike besides looks! One girl is blonde her name is Cheyanne and I talk to her all the time but we only seem to talk about serious stuff. Emily though is a brunette and I always have fun with her and I'm her go to guy for advice and other things. They've both told me they like me and I just CANT MAKE UP MY MIND!!! Please help!
     
  2. Wolf68k

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    pics?
     
  3. Tool

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    The obvious answer to this is: Threesome.
     
  4. victimizati0n

    victimizati0n New Member

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    fuck both of them, and see which one gives you the better sex?

    id choose the brunette though
     
  5. Ickyarkman

    Ickyarkman New Member

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    well, Emily does more physical stuff so im positive she'd put out but Cheyanne is a little more intellectual and i like that about her. lol you guys onoly seem to be focusing on sex :p
     
  6. Wolf68k

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    ....and your point would be.....
     
  7. Ickyarkman

    Ickyarkman New Member

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    well that isnt one of my strong points :p im still a virgin so the whole sex thing isnt THAT important to me. Also, that would be pretty shallow and im not a shallow guy :).
     
  8. Yail Bloor

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    if you aren't going to be having sex, then there is no reason to choose between the two of them

    remain single
     
  9. JuniorH

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    Why do you have to choose? Date both of them for a while and if you ever want something serious with one then break it off with the other one. Variety is the spice of life, you don't have to focus all of your attention on one woman.
     
  10. Ickyarkman

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    well dating both of them goes against my morals so thats out of the question. But as far as remaining single sounds is pretty good. The one who likes me more will still like me later. <----cant think of a less childish way to word it. anyway does that sound right?
     
  11. DiggityDogg

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    Go with the brunette. I've never seen a young relationship last between two people who are so serious all of the time. The brunette is more fun and thus you will have more fun with her.
     
  12. MattThom01

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    all we mean by "date both of them" is simply hang out with both of them. It's not "dating" as in high school, where you are seeing each other regularly and exclusively...it just means you are hanging out with someone romantically. Go out for drinks/a snack with both of them (separate occasions), go bowling, mini golf, whatever.

    I know it can take a while to get it in your head that it is OK to be social with multiple girls at the same time. I've just recently gotten used to the idea myself.

    Why limit your time to just one girl one or two days a week? With 2 girls, you can have more plans for the week, so you don't get bored.
     
  13. Ickyarkman

    Ickyarkman New Member

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    Well Matt you do have a good point. I guess i can try it out.
     
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    the chick you're a "go to guy" with, you are friend zoned... go for the other girl
     
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    tehrealist New Member

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    Don't listen to the whole sex dealio, it's a waste of time in my opinion.
    Stay abstinent until the right person for you comes along...
    aim for staying abstinent until marriage if you want, which will make sex all the more enjoyable.

    and if I were in your position, I'd go for the intellectual who you can have deep discussions with.
    in my experience, the relationship just feels too shallow if you can't have a good, deep discussion with your girlfriend and you both just want to have fun and not be too serious.

    hope my advice helps out a little bit, best of luck.
     
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    if you can't decide things with the romantic point of view, then ask yourself how either would fit into your life? what do you want right now? someone who has the potential to be there for a long time, or someone who can give you new experiences? someone you can laugh with or someone you can be inspired with?
    if you still run into trouble, coincidentally, a coin has as many sides as your dilemma.
     
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    Why? The whole point of dating is to get to know a person before you decide to begin a proper relationship with them. Nobody said you had to sleep with them both, or anything.

    You need to spend more time with each of them to be able to make up your mind - there's absolutely nothing wrong with that.
     
  19. Ickyarkman

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    :rofl: flip a coin :bowdown: first time ive heard that in forever. Well :x: here it goes lol
     
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    No offence to you, but there is no way I would stay abstinent till I was married! It's one thing to wait till you love someone to have sex, or at least have a relationship, but waiting till you are married is kinda crazy. How do you know if you are compatable sexually at all!
     
  21. Falconer

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    Do you have to choose?
     
  22. YourMomOnRyeBun

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    So you think you can fuck one friend and not deal with the fallout from the other?

    Abort.
     
  23. leanmachine

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    Give it some time, you'll eventually figure out which one you like best.
     
  24. Ickyarkman

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    Okay offtopic. i made the wrong decision. I picked Cheyanne (the blonde) and i really like her. Tonight i was thinking and realized I'm on the brink of being in love with Emily. I DONT KNOW WHAT TO DO!~
     
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    Umm if your sure about it then break up w/ one an get with the other
     

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