trying to spice things up a bit

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  1. Tedrzz

    Tedrzz New Member

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    my girlfriend and I have been dating for around 7 months. sexually we've done everything besides sex, and it's going to stay that way for now. we're both sick of the routine we have so i turn to you, OT, for some tips
     
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    The Secretary My domestic skills will rock your socks off!

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    Are you in teh freaky?
     
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    I think it would be most helpful if you told us your current routine; otherwise the suggestions may be the same thing as what you already do....

    :dunno:
     
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    ahhh... "routine" is probably where things are going wrong. routine is getting up every morning at 7, showering for 15 minutes, eating the same thing every morning and getting to work at the exact same time. sexual activities should not be a routine. do these things because you want too, not because you have to. be spontanious, romantic, try being in different places when you want to get it on. be creative.
     
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    Blindfold her. Continue as usual.
     
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    7 months and no sex?
    If that is the case then you haven't done everything but sex.
    If you had, you would have already slid into home plate.
    One thing leads to another. If you have rounded third already, then you tripped over the bag and you suck at it, because you should be leading off right now and ready to score.


    So maybe try getting better at what that "everything but sex" thing it is you do would be good before you start busting out whips and chains when you haven't even busted out the cock.

    Just my opinion.
     
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    Mmm, I agree. Spontaniety and romance are key. Never underestimate the power of a good massage, or taking a bath together. Go back to basics and tease each other with rules about only kissing on this date, a 'no hands' rule on another. Keep it fresh and interesting and don't be afraid to have fun.
     
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    You seem to forget that some people do still believe in no sex before engagement and/or marriage. And that's perfectly OK for them to be that way. It just isn't something you personally follow.

    So don't chastize him about "sucking at it" because he may be just fine....:noes:
     
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    we don't feel that we're ready for sex. it's not im shitty, it's just right now isnt a good time..
     
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    Good for you for realizing that its not the right time.
     
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    Touche'!! :o
     

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