I want to fall out of love with her. The only thing I have that reminds me of her right now is her number on my cell phone. I deleted her from AIM, MySpace, Facebook, hid her mementos (deodorant, nude pics), untied my shoe (she had tied it). I called her today (breaking my no-contact rule). "Hello?" I said. "Hey!" she said in her usual friendly voice. "I want to explain something to you. I'm not taking you off Facebook to signify that we're never to be friends or to be aggressive. I'm trying to fall out of love with you right now ... right? (pause) So it will be easier if I don't have temptations, like facebook. Alright?" Then I hung up. Some of you will say this was a bad move, that she doesn't deserve friendliness, etc., but I am not trying to punish her for losing interest in me, I am just trying to get over her. Admittedly, hearing her voice when she said, "Hey!" was absolutely destructive, but that's why I hung up immediately after I explained that I wasn't saying "Fuck you," by taking her off facebook. Other than that I've stayed out of contact and will continue to do so. Does fucking other women help?