So ive been lied to and cheated on and heartbroken repeatedly in the past. My parents have just gone through a very rough affair. To say the least i am very suspectful and always assume the worst instead of taking someones word. I have been dating this great girl for a while now, and i really like her and things are great. I have no reason to not trust her, and every reason to believe every word she says. But i still find myself with these inventive, stupid, and very painfull ideas in my head with no real world basis. Just looking for advice. I have been handling it very well so far but is are there any others who have trouble trusting people and how do you cope with it?