Ok this is a spinoff on the other thread going. Background- found out my wife had some affairs last year. she came to me and apologized was going to get help and didn't and found out they continued. Now- Things are pretty much done and over at this point and I'm trying to look ahead to my future. It all seems so blah right now. I have lost all trust/faith in people. How in the heck do I gain this back? For those of you who have been through something similiar what did you do? How did you heal? I know this isn't exactly an FS issue. But I lurk here alot, value the opinions offered in here, and feel there' alot of sound advice to be given from this group.