Trouble getting new SO (virgin) to get more sexual

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  1. hotsauce

    hotsauce New Member

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    We have been dating for about a month now. I've finger her about everytime I have the chance, but she doesnt want to try pleasing me :o
     
  2. Cthalupa

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    Well, it isn't fair for you to be pleasing her, and her not returning the favor.

    She won't even give you a hand job?

    Try to sit her down, and explain to her that you feel like you're giving a lot more in the relationship, at least in relation to sexual stuff, than you're getting in return.

    If she still won't, try not fingering her. Maybe she'll realize "Hey, that felt pretty nice... But I wasn't making him feel good."
     
  3. Cerridwen

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    How old are the two of you? How far do you expect her to go seeing as how you have only been with her a month and she is a virgin?
     
  4. Bruticus

    Bruticus half dead OT Supporter

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    This may be obvious, but have you actually talked about this at all?
     

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