Trip with the GF... want to spice things up...

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  1. Project X

    Project X New Member

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    my gf and i are goin on a ski trip for a week in about 10 days. we arent able to have sex or have done anything for the last 5 months since we live in seperate homes and work.. this is for our 2 year anniversary - we will obviously catch up on the love making but is there anything i can do to spice things up since we probably wont be able to do anything after the trip for awhile.

    we will obviously have sex and try diff positions.. oral/hand stimulation for both of us.. ive rubbed her clit for her to orgasm but havent had any luck fingerin her.. whats the best way to finger a girl.. most times she prefers that i just kiss her down there.

    i thought about getin sex toys.. vibe or dildo she said she liked the idea of a cock ring too.. problem is that we both dont feel comfrotable having items like these shipped to our house... and i also dont wont to weird her out or make her think im a freak by gettin these toys.

    any advice?
     
  2. rs0252

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    Man up and just go to a local store and buy a variety of toys to take on the vacation. Ask the person working at the store for advice. YOur girl knows you have not been adventurous either, so say something like, "I really wasnt sure what to get, so I bought a little bit of everything. It should lighten things up, yet be exciting to try out. Problem solved.
     
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    yeah man its not as big of deal as it seems...My girl and I went tothe store together...Its fun to be adventerous
     
  4. Falconer

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    I'd talk to her about toys first. Some chicks don't like them. And some guys don't, either (like me).

    Just have a lot of sex. btw, rubbing a girl's clit to orgasm is like 239478234978 times easier than FINGERING her to orgasm. A lot of chicks can only come from clit stimulation, so don't be worried. Just ask her what she likes.
     
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    :( I just blew 60 bucks on a fancy vibrator thing and I'm unimpressed... don't waste too much money on crazy stuff before you guys figure out what you like. I think it'd be fun for you guys to go to the store together too. You don't have to go to one in your town or anything. Of course, you could always get it shipped to you, if you had to...can't you get things shipped to like mailboxes, etc. or the ups store or something like that? I thought that was how those places worked, you could rent a PO Box or something. I might be wrong. I don't really know.

    Have you guys tried mutual masturbation? That's pretty fun!
     
  6. Project X

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    yeah we'll try out new things.. ill talk to her again about the sex toys.. maybe we can go together to get a vibe or something..

    ive only tried fingerin her maybe 3 times.. and everytime she would just wnat me to rub her kiss her clit.. i just wanna try fingerin her and see what happens - does kissin the clit and fingerin allow for a better orgasm? i heard to hit the g spot you gotta use 2 fingers and make the "come here" motion with your fingers...
     
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    i think we will also be gettin some porn to watch on the trip.. for some reason she loves watchin it with me.. and it turns out ot be really fun.
     
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    If she doesn't even like you fingering her, maybe don't waste your money on a vibrator right now.. or something small like a bullet....not a dildo/vibe. Is she uncomfortable with you fingering her, or just prefers the other?

    I don't know about the g-spot thing. My boyfriend does something good, and if I rub my clit at the same time, it's awesome...but I couldn't tell you what it is. don't know where he's rubbing, or what motion.
     
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    she'll get off if i rub her clit... isnt that what a vibe is for - the clit and the dildo for the vagina?

    my gf doesnt mind me rubbin her clit..and get off by either that or me goin down on her...
     
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    Well, really they're for wherever you use them! I mean, I suppose a dildo is more for the vagina, but a vibrator is for wherever it feels good! Or you could just go out and waste $60 on a vibrating dildo. :wtc: j/k. That's just me. Picked out the most expensive one thinking it'd be good and it just doesn't really do much for me. Kinda hurts. Has a clitoral stimulator on it and it's just too much.

    I just asked about you fingering her because if she doesn't like it because she is self-conscious about it, then she may be self-conscious about you using toys too...

    I'm all perterbed by my waste of money, and i would hate to see you waste money just to find out you don't like it. Of course, you've got to waste some money to find out what works...
     

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