like uh, pre-friendzoning a girl. I really like to be direct with a girl, but not come on too strong. I just like to talk really slow and smooth, use alot of pauses and eye contact, some playfulness, but i dont wait weeks until i stop talking on a polite friendly level. I know alot of guys use this "You make a great friend" technique, and i was interested. When you do this, do you verbalize it but still come off as seductive? Like an on/off mix-message?