Too soon for Valentines Day?

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  1. TheWeasel

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    Met a girl that works for my best friend's girlfriend. She came along to a sporting event with us a couple weeks ago. Been talking to her since then. Came out for drinks with us last Tuesday (I picked her up at her place) and we ended up back at her place til 6:30am :naughty:. We've gotten together a couple times since then and I'm bringing her out for brunch on Sunday.

    Question is, would it be a bit soon to get her flowers or something sent to her work for Valentines Day?
     
  2. just_another_on

    just_another_on New Member

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    Um, well depends on how the two of you are taking to each other.

    It seems like you two are already sexual (staying there til 6:30am), so really thats the hardest part to get over. Its not like you're trying to buy her/get her to have sex with you, so I think it'd be ok for flowers, personally.

    Obviously that depends on your intentions with this girl? Possible future g/f or just a fling?
     
  3. Abomb

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    if i was single I wouldnt spend a fucking dime. I am in a relationship and I am already bitter about dropping $50-100 on a fake fucking holiday used by girls as some sort of sick boyfriend comparing contest when real badass holidays like steak and blowjob day are not even officially recognized and respected by all.

    Fuck hallmark, fuck this fake holiday, fuck all of the people including myself for buying into this retard waste of money shit, and pray for the day steak and blowjob day reigns supreme over all, including christmas and halloween.
     
  4. TheWeasel

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    Not sure about the intentions. She got outta a long term relationship recently so I can understand if she's not looking for anything too serious right now. I've been single and loving it for over a year now but at the same time I'm not sure I'm looking to give that up either. I guess I just don't know what I want at this point. Arg.

    LOL, this is my general feeling towards Hallmark holidays too. I talked to her about it yesterday and she said she's not big on Valentines Day. Said she's cool with someone doing something special for her but not into all the gift stuff.
     
  5. Toxica

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    I don't think it would hurt anything if you gave her some flowers. (Nothing big though)

    If I were the girl, I think I'd be happy getting some flowers or something.
     
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    Well, flowers are an extremely sensitive maneuver.. Ever more so if they're being delivered, women like that stuff.

    I'd hold off if you dont have any intentions on starting something serious. Maybe a single rose the day after when you see her to be along the lines of, 'since I didnt see you yesterday'
     
  7. TheWeasel

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    Was thinking something other then roses. Something a little less serious.

    Something like this.
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    What about making something like cookies, or strawberries dipped in chocolate? :drool:
     
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    I wouldn't get anything too extravagant, maybe a little bouquet, if that's what you want. My SO loves lilies so that's what I've gotten her before and you won't pay out the ass for some overpriced roses are arrangement.
     
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    oo I like this idea. Next relationship where the girl asks for something for valentines day, I'm going to remind her the same comes back my way on steak and bj day!
     
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    does your gf know how bitter you are about it? i wouldn't want someone doing something because they feel obligated like that. :sad2:
     
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    I'm surprised no one said it yet, get her a dick in a box :bigthumb:
     
  13. Joybang

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    To me it depends on the person. If my SO though she was entitled to some huge extravaganza on V-day I would be bitter about it too. Shit this year I can't even see my SO so its a moot point, but if she was here I would do something because I wanted too, not because she was expecting it. And honestly it doesn't have to be something ridiculous anyway. You can get her something small or plan something fun for the two of you and that should be enough for most people. Spending a pile of cash does not make it special.
     
  14. Abomb

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    yes she does. she pulled the its not a big deal thing but I know deep down inside from her tone and body language she wants that shit really bad.


    edit: and shes been a good girl to me so I will grudgingly oblige her her fake holiday.
     
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    too bad its not an official holiday so when you go to walmart or target etc instead of a fuckload of cards, flowers, chocolates, candies, teddy bears there are insane amounts of steak, beer, flavored lube, and pornos.
     
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    do you WANT to get her something for VD?
     
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    sending flowers might be a bit much. it also gives her the impression very early in the relationship that this is what you do, and if you dont keep this behavior up for the rest of the relationship, she might be disappointed and/or get bitchy about it, which makes life annoying for you. now, if this is the type of guy you are (always doing things like this) then disregard that.
     
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    why the fuck you need a national to deem something a holiday? Hallmark a company made one. She should know where to find flavored lube and steak any day of the year... Abomb hold yourself to higher standards!
     
  19. Abomb

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    yes but I want all that shit conviently placed in the same location like retail stores do for valentines day for an entire week before our holiday:rofl:
     
  20. lauren

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    yeh, cause a trip to the sex shop and grocer is sooooo hard.
     
  21. Abomb

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    whoa whoa whoa hold the phones here.


    I thought women wanted equality between sexes? :rofl:

    Should be equal # of fake holidays , one for men one for women.

    should be equal ease of access to related holiday goods. ie retail stores shove all the valentines day goods in one convenient spot so why dont men deserve beer steaks and flavored lube all in one section a week before steak and blowjob day? theres no equality in that. men demand equal rights as women damn it :hsugh:
     
  22. Drifter87

    Drifter87 Yippi-kay-ay, Motherfucker

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    Mother fucking dot!

    It is amazing that if you don't get her flowers, chocolates, a present, and pay for dinner your woman gets very upset with you on 2/14.

    Yet on Steak and Blow Job day, you get nothing and you can't really do anything about it.
     
  23. Pringles

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    your no longer comparing apples to apples, so Laurens response should revolved around how we get paid more on average and that money can then be used to help stimulate the economy and make our woman happy for one day of the year on valentines.
     
  24. Abomb

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    the irony stems from the fake holiday part :rofl:
     
  25. Abomb

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    :rofl: I just want lauren to respond with something witty for my amusement
     

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