I've been dating the same guy for over a year and everything is great. We get along, he makes me laugh, I like his family, he likes mine.. But whenever we have a weekend alone together - or anytime alone, all we do is have sex. It's really hard now with finals coming up.. I'm out of work, we both have papers to write and exams to study for but we can't even stay focused. We get started, sit at the kitchen table - somewhere OUT of the bedroom - but end up either on the kitchen counter or back in the bedroom. Even when we tried studying at the library we both couldn't wait to get out of there. I feel like I'm limiting his productivity by him laying around in bed with me all day. He claims he enjoys it but I just don't know.. I don't want to tell him not to come over because I really do like spending time with him and I also like the sex. I'd say it's 50/50 as to who is initiating it through either teasing, suggestive comments, or straight out touching. And our relationship is NOT based on sex.. We just really enjoy our time spent together and have really strong chemistry. So basically, I'm honestly asking for tips as to how we can stay focused so that we can actually get stuff done. We've had a list of important things to do this weekend and past weekends, but all we do is lay around in bed.