too much drama....

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  1. Nomad

    Nomad Active Member

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    i think i just keep attracting drama filled women.

    examples:

    1) one of my ex's was somewhat bi-polar (not literally but i'm pretty sure she fit the description). she'd be fine and sweet one minute, but then at the drop of a hat would flip out on me over the simplest things (i.e. i didn't screw the cap on the soda bottles on tight enough, laughing at silly jokes, etc.)

    2) my most recent ex cheated on me, talked shit about me to people, then when she broke up with her new bf came begging me to take her back

    3) this girl i've been fooling around with keeps talking about her ex and stuff and keeps making it seem like i'm the reason they broke up (we didn't start fooling around until 2 months after they broke up and i haven't hung out with her since December, and nothing happened between us back then)

    am i just going after the wrong girls? and are there any women out there who are at all sane?
     
  2. knucks

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    Put them in their place.

    Being honest and upfront about everything has been good to me.
    Sure, maybe it hasn't gotten me laid or maybe ruined me seeing some girls, but at least I was comfortable with my decision and the outcome since I did something about it.
     
  3. just_another_on

    just_another_on New Member

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    Everyone of your posts sounds like issues that come along when dealing w/ young/immature girls :dunno:
     
  4. Nomad

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    :hs: that's what i figured....i'm 20 and don't like the whole immature/bratty girl thing.

    sure there's acceptable times to act immature, but mostly when both people are having fun/goofing around.

    but some of these girls make me go :ugh: at times


    being "mature" for my age sucks
     
  5. knucks

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    I'm 20 as well, basically have dealt with the same shit, I've just gotten impulsive and don't put up with it. I'd rather belittle someone and make myself feel better :rofl:
     
  6. ForgottenSpiral

    ForgottenSpiral Hope and Irony OT Supporter

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    Ding ding ding!

    You need to learn to weed out the crazy ones instead of overlooking their flaws because they're "cool" or "hot" or whatever. It takes practice identifying them for yourself and you have to start listening to objective third parties who point out red flags to you.

    Trust me on that, man. I'm like an expert on chaotic women. :bowrofl:
     
  7. just_another_on

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    Heh, im 22, almost 23 and I HATE playing those little games. Most recent is the girl i've been talking to and she pulls this ONE card she has ALL the fucking time and it pisses me off...

    Well, I said something about it and she hasnt called/texted me since friday, who gives a fuck.

    She'll text me... then 5-10 mins will go by and she'll send "?", and if I Dont answer within like 5-10 mins again, she'll text, "Well, I guess you're too busy, i'll let you go".

    So I flipped. I pretty much was like, "Ummmmmmmmmmmmmmmm, I dont answer/look at my phone every time the fucking thing goes off. You need to relax/stop with that ill let you go bullshit".

    So, I emailed her my chat logs and literally, twice a day for like 3-4 days straight, when ever I didnt text her back she pulled the "Fine, you're too busy, i'll let you go" card.

    Fuck her life.
     
  8. Nomad

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    hmm....may try this for a bit see how out it turns out
     
  9. knucks

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    :rofl:
    I'd be so pissed that she would be wasting my text message quota.

    This one girl I saw over the summer would do that sometimes.
    I spoke to her on the phone, told her I'd give her a call later tonight, maybe.

    Get a text from her "Are you going to call...?" and then 30mins later "Well, guess I was not lucky enough."
     
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    just_another_on New Member

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    Dude, thats literally the exact same shit this girl pulls, its soooooooooooooo fucking annoying bro.
     
  11. knucks

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    Fortunately for me and unfortunate for her, she lived 1hr away and because she's dumb, never called me back, and I had none of it.
     
  12. iwishyouwerebeer

    iwishyouwerebeer you shut your cunt Moderator

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    1. It's hard to find a sane, mature 20 year old girl. Sure they exist, but you probably aren't attracted to them.

    2. You are in the wrong for seemingly caring too much. At 20 you should be casually dating until you find out the girl isn't for you and you swiftly move on. Work on not getting so attached.
     
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    just_another_on New Member

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    :werd:

    Fortunately for me, my car is 'pull me over yellow' and she lives in an area where cops LOVE to pull people over. Thats generally my excuse for not driving to her house (15~ mins away)
     
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    Um that's what I don't get. If she's worried about talking to you, then why didn't she just call you instead of texting about it. lol
     
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    Because, girls apparently (generalization comes from my personal experiences) think its WAY worse to ignore a call than it is a text.
     
  16. Nomad

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    :hs:

    i'm working on it
     
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    wise words :bowdown:
     
  18. knucks

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    Because girls are fucking stupid.
     
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    also wise words :bowdown:
     
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    because of her obvious low self esteem.
     
  21. iwishyouwerebeer

    iwishyouwerebeer you shut your cunt Moderator

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    That's all you can do :)

    :rofl:
     
  22. D7

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    :werd:

    Perfect example of caring too much. Put your foot down and don't accept blame for something you had no part in.
     
  23. Nomad

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    oh i wasn't accepting the blame i'm sorta baffled by how its my fault
     
  24. Falconer

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    Yes, and yes.

    But they are extremely hard to find.

    This is why I say around 5% or less of the population is actually relationship-worthy.

    ...assuming you are high quality and relationship-worthy yourself.
     

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