Since there is really no such thing as 'too gay' does anyone find themselves kinda uncomfortable around the 'queer' crowd. Hard to describe the extent of flamboyancy im referring to, cause it isnt flamboyancy itself.. I had a gay friend who was.. well loud, im uncomfortable around loud people period but I get wigged out and self conscious around gay people. Its my reserved nature and Im so used to my defense mechanism I get frightened when someone else is rendering those defenses usless.. um i guess I am afraid to be gay my association. heh What should I do about it?