have you ever gotten to know a friend so well that you end up not really liking what you find? i'm not talking about minor quirks or foibles, but like bigger personality differences. for instance, i have a friend i hung out with who was really social and you could always count on him if you were looking to go out. but after awhile it turned out, all he really wanted to do was party or buy stuff and was pretty irresponsible about everything else. similarly, i had another friend who i originally thought was really great. she was smart, fun, and popular with a good personality among other things. but once i really got to know her i found out, although still smart, she was kinda boring, had a timid personality, and really didn't get along with the majority of her friends. i dont want to sound shallow, since i did originally become friends with them for legitimate reasons (common interests, got along with each other, etc.), it's just that certain things about them that i learned later on really just didn't click with me. i'm still friends with them and we hang out on occasion, it's just that when i'm around them too long for their other personality traits to come out, it kinda turns me off. just wondering if anyone else had any experiences with that sorta thing?