to douche or not to douche

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  1. poncepr64

    poncepr64 New Member

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    been with my so for a while, never really much thought about it.
    sort of a topic that came up while watching T.V.
    blame the commercials...anyway, I noticed she never has any of those boxes around. So, I asked about it... she got offended!
    I'm in the doghouse...:noes: wtf
     
  2. demosnat

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    She's offended because, no matter how you phrased it, what she heard is "your vag smells or tastes bad"

    Douching is AWFUL for you. It can really fuck up the PH balance of your vagina, cause infections, etc. Its really something our mothers generation did.
    If she tastes/smells in such a way you think she needs to douche, what she needs to do is see a doctor.
     
  3. poncepr64

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    the only time the i notice a "scent " is around that time of month.
    still, it was just a question, I mean seriously we've been together over 10 yrs
     
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    Don't know what to tell you.
     
  5. stormywaters

    stormywaters Tornadoes are just wind...

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    That scent around the period time is normal. I agree with demosnat, you basically told her she has a smelly vag.
     
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    It's generally unhealthy and disturbs PH balance
     
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    Rectify the situation.

    Explain (not tell, that's different from explaining) to her that you were just curious because you've never seen her with any of those items/products, and ask why other women might even need it. Explain that it wasn't an indication of her disposition, but rather other women. I'm sure she wouldn't let something petty like this break up the relationship between you and her...maybe just the relationship between your member and her vagina for a while.
     
  8. iwishyouwerebeer

    iwishyouwerebeer you shut your cunt Moderator

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    :rofl: How old are you OP?
     
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    Douching is definitely not a good idea. It majorly increases the risk of infection. Also douches are not only used because of the smell. A lot of times they're used to clean out the vagina after sex, especially if the guy came inside without a condom. So I would just tell her that you weren't referring to her personally when you asked the question but you were just curious more than anything.
     
  10. Viper

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    When I "stole" my ex-wife's car from her, I found a box of disposable douches in the trunk and an empty pill crate of emergency contraceptives.
     
  11. BedBunny

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    why do they even make douches? they are pretty worthless imho.
     
  12. RougeOgre

    RougeOgre FS Librarian and MOD

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    There are medicated ones to use before a surgery but other than that :dunno:. If your trying to hide the smell of some other guy then you have to explain the vinegar/flower/whatever smell to your man :mamoru:
     
  13. poncepr64

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    hey guys,
    thats what i don't get! when i initially asked her about it, It was because I had never seen those boxes around. btw that's how i asked too. " I've never seen you with those?"
     

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