SRS Tired of my friends.

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  1. Grass

    Grass New Member

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    Not really sure what to do.

    I'm getting real tired of my current group of friends. Most of the time I don't feel motivated to call them even if I'm bored as shit. We've got very little in common and I'm just friends with them because I was back in high school.

    The way things went, I kinda bitched out and spent every waking moment with my ex-girlfriend when I was a senior in HS, and then when we broke up after my freshman year of college, I started hanging out with these kids.

    They're all buddy buddy and although they like me and I like most of them, I don't feel any REAL connection to any of them. Like, I don't even want to go out of my way to hang out with them sometimes, I just do because there's nothing else.

    I'm 21 and not exactly sure where I'm supposed to go from here. Like, I've never been put in a position before where I've been forced to make a new friend, so I have no idea how to go out and do it.

    I'm lonley :hs:
     
  2. Gregsaidthat

    Gregsaidthat "Individuality is the new conformity"

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    Just be yourself go out and have a drink and make your circle of friends a little bigger!

    Try to get in on a dart game or a pool game and that with force you to have a conversation with the people around/playing with/against.
     
  3. BradUF

    BradUF Guest

    Same here man.. I have been hanging around the same type of people forever and I am looking to get to know people I have more in common with.
     
  4. awdboost

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    No point in hanging out with them unless you really have a connection or like having fun with them.

    Like Gregsaidthat go places you HAVE to conversate with others. Pool hall, bar, basketball games, poker tournaments; and expand your group of friends.
     
  5. Grass

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    Thanks for the advice, but I feel like this stuff is much easier said than done. I mean like, what am I gonna do, talk to a dude at a pool hall and then ask for his number so I can stay in touch? He'll just punch me in the face.
     
  6. BradUF

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    I met a ton of people from work but when I didn't work there anymore no one hanged around me. I only talk to one person on aim still out of like 6 other people.
     
  7. Grass

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    Yeah, I been thinking about the job thing. I'm starting an internship in NYC tomorrow for the summer, and I'm working with 4 other interns that will be around my age. 2 dudes and 2 girls. Hopefully some of them are cool :hs:
     

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