Time for me to whine

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  1. PmDavis300

    PmDavis300 God Bless America, Motherfucker.

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    well i havnt had to vent about a girl for a long time, but here goes....

    ive been dating this girl for 3 months... and i dont even know if i want to be in a relationship right now... she really likes me, and i like her but not to a great extent. i always feel like i want to get out of this relationship, and right now im seriously thinking about breaking up with her.
    i dont know why i dont just go ahead and do it, i guess i just hate the thought of breaking up with her and having it be the wrong decsion... although its probably the right one.
    anyways, we fight an awful lot, it might be my fault, but im not sure... i dont even think it matters. but i always seem to be mad at her for one reason or another. shes a nice girl and has the best of intentions, i just dont know if i can handle this whole relationship thing right now.

    well i dont know whta else to say, maybe ill come back and whine more later, maybe not... we'll see
     
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    dark cloud New Member

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    If the relationship isn't satisfying you, you need to drop it. Don't be afraid you'll be alone for a while, chances are you're a great guy and will have another girl soon.

    The grass is always greener on the other side.
     
  3. PmDavis300

    PmDavis300 God Bless America, Motherfucker.

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    :sigh: well thats the trick... figureing out if im satisfied or not
     
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    If you have to ask then it's probably not.
     
  5. antihero

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    do you smile when you see her for the first time every day, or do you look at your cell phone when she calls wonder if you have to answer it?
     
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    quid I Piss Excellence OT Supporter

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    thats a huge one.... if you do that, just stop with the "relationship"
     
  7. PmDavis300

    PmDavis300 God Bless America, Motherfucker.

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    i did it... im now single :hs:
     
  8. Pringles

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    lol that was fast. I think Im a very jealous person. Right now my gf of 6 months, I'm in similar shoes with you. I dont really fight with her, I just find that i spend most of my days wondering if she cares about me. I guess I feel she doesnt show me enough attraction. I'm also a very greedy person and maybe the fact that I consider her a "leech" doesnt help my cause either. I then start to think about this and maybe it's my fault? Maybe i ask to much of her?

    Also I tend to spend most of my days wondering why she hasnt done the smallest detail. IE call me or something. I just dont know... But it's only HS so who gives a fuck?
     
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    good choice. fighting in a relationship after only 3 months usually isnt a good sign. :hs:
     
  10. PmDavis300

    PmDavis300 God Bless America, Motherfucker.

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    that wasa my philosophy
     

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