Thrill of the chase...

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  1. HoVa

    HoVa New Member

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    so im wondering if any of you are like me. im basically just in it for the thrill of the chase. the second i nut, no matter how perfect the girl is physically/personality wise, im not interested anymore. in fact, it doesnt have to lead to sex. if i know that she likes me or whatever, i'll move on.

    anyone else like me? it drives me nuts if she drops hints here and there.. im also pretty good myself and often end up "winning" (the girl gives in)..

    :dunno:
     
  2. PuppyCat

    PuppyCat O.T. Mom

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    Used to be that way...found it was "empty" after a while.
     
  3. MIK3

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    i'm not in it for the fact that after i got them i let them go. but your right the thrill of the chase to get the one you want is amazing.

    right now i'm chasing this one girl and its blowing my mind.

    you never know what the other is thinking and keep your fingers crossed you make the right move to end up with them in the end.
     
  4. HoVa

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    ive had some other people tell me that im being shallow and that i'll end up being lonely and such, but ive never felt that way.

    i have a lot of caring friends and even some of the girls i meet end up being good friends (we dont date or have sex after that)..
     
  5. HoVa

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    when i first start out, of course id like to end up with them in the end. but in the end, it mostly never happens. i find too many flaws that makes me not want to be with them.
     
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    Get out of it ASAP, I was in that mode for 2-3 years. I liked someone, found some flaws then just lost interest. I'm sure they felt pretty bad because I just broke off contact. I met my match when I met the perfect girl. It's not fun going from being in control to being totally zombie over someone. She dump trucked my ass....still somewhat angry

    So yeah, you know how the cliche goes: what goes around comes around.
     
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    i know a lot of women like this (not calling you a woman, just an interesting coincidence)...

    personally i like the opposite... i hate the chase... it's the moment of knowing i've got them, and then them chasing me that i like...
     
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    the chase is fun, but when it backfires its a horrible feeling, but you move on.

    the chase is only fun when in the end it works out, and u can finally have the girl and not constantly worry where she stands with you, etc.
     
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    Hmmmm i did that for a long time. Fucks you up in the end pretty bad...
     
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    12345678 EH?

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    i'm the same way recently
     
  11. Spaulding Smails

    Spaulding Smails Real Estate Guru

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    I was you from probably age 18 to 24.......Solid six years of scamming girls, getting laid, then curbing them when pitted with committments or relationships....At some point you'll have your fill, realize that sex isn't the holy grail you've made it out to be, and wish you had something more....

    Now that im in a very nice committed relationship, I still have the occansional urge to go tap a random broad, but im happy in my relationship, and random sex isn;t worth risking that.....

    Hopefully that makes some sense....

    But don't feel shame in wanting to spread your wild oats, and don't get conned into a serious relationship before you are ready..i learned alot about women in those years, learned alot about myself and what i wanted....it was all valuable...
     
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    I am the exact same way.

    A girl will come over and as soon as I bust a nut I can't force her out the door fast enough. Even when they spend the night, I can't wait till the morning time when they leave. :hs:

    Also when I meet a new chick once I find out she likes me or wants me or soemthing, then I lose interest. weird, wierd.
     
  13. JustinH

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    I feel the same way about alot of girls, you just want to bang them then them to go away and not bother you. No commitments, no strings attached, nothing.

    I only was with one girl who I considered to be very special to me and she dumped me for this athletic dude, go figure.
     
  14. <Mark>

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    Hmmm Im currently working my way out of that stage. Ive had a ton of fun in the last few months chasing girls and Ive always had a reliable bed buddy on the side...now Im starting to think that Im ready to settle down. Im still not 100% sure but Im starting to lose interest in most of the other girls Ive been talking to and the one that is still around is consistent.

    edit: by settle down I mean date one girl and one girl only for a while.
     
  15. RoblesGT

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    Karma bitches ... :hs:

    I'm doing this now in Okinawa ... but more or less not so much chasing. Meet the girl, talk a little bit ... sex ... not call ... they call me for booty calls. Works out great cause I leave here in about a year n a half.

    Once I get back stateside, this all stops though.
     
  16. HoVa

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    i think not committing is because i hold a magnifying glass to most prospects. they have to be perfect for me or else i'll go someplace else.

    i just know i shouldnt be tossing them out but i just want more. more and more and more and more.
     
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    I knew someone like that once. Turned out he never ended up with any of the girls he was with cuz he was gay.














    :rofl:
     
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  18. Spaulding Smails

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    I don't think so....They should be perfect for you, if not, on to the next....

    don't ever settle...
     
  19. chica&buddies

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    :rofl: funny... i know a guy that does the same thing.

    :mamoru: the funny thing here is you think you're being the player, when in fact, they very well may be playing you too ;)

    just something to keep in mind ;)
     
  20. WeRdToYoMoThA

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    i dont think i will ever be like that. theres nothing i like more than holding a girl i am dating longterm in my arms :hs:

    i miss it :wtc:
     

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