FRK Threesome rules

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  1. BingBingBing

    BingBingBing New Member

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    My wife and I have been talking on and off about the possibility of getting a female friend to play with. I was just curious about the kinds of rules the experienced posters lay out before engaging in any activity. Some that are already put down are:
    I don't penetrate our friend, unless it's anal.
    I only kiss my wife (but they can kiss)

    Any input is appreciated.
     
  2. Ideotique

    Ideotique Drinking on monday nights does not make me an alco

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    Whatever you guys are comfortable with

    Me and an ex had a couple of experiences. Both mmf and mff. Interesting and worth it, but there were a couple of awkward moments.

    Just make sure you guys are completly comfortable with it. Very easy to get stabs of jealousy imo if one of you feels that the third person is paying to much attention to your SO.

    edit. ony of my first fs posts. Trying to build up some confidence here before posting a pic or two.
     
  3. BingBingBing

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    Oh yes, condoms are a given. I was just trying to get some ideas in case there are some situations that might occur that we didn't think of.
     
  4. BingBingBing

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    Thanks lil, that helps a lot. I hadn't even thought of what would happen after we're done.
     
  5. Lazy D.

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    and that's even more important than sex if you care about your relationship.
     
  6. Vysion

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    Wait? Why is only anal penetration allowed but not vaginal?
     
  7. RougeOgre

    RougeOgre FS Librarian and MOD

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    Everyone has their own rules but I have heard 2 reasons.

    1) Less chance of accidental pregnancy
    2) Vaginal is "their special" act, not to be shared.
     
  8. Bubba Atlantis

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    Indeed. What is interesting is for the longest time, we played around with other girls but I could NOT kiss them. So, I could finger them, use toys, etc, but not kiss. Each person has their own reasons as to why something is important to keep 'special' or not allow.
     
  9. BingBingBing

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    Vysion > Rogue and Bubba hit it spot on.
     
  10. ~*Pogovina*~

    ~*Pogovina*~ Whip it! Whip it good!!

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    My suggestion is to keep some things special just for you and her, and don't do them with others. It helps to reassure both partners that they hold a special place in your heart and that while you may do physical things with others, your heart is with them.
     
  11. Bubba Atlantis

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    In general I would agree with you Pogovina. However, in some cases, people just really do not mind. For most however, I would state your suggestion to be the best course of action.
     
  12. DLilot

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    Hire a hooker. It's easier that way.
     
  13. Bubba Atlantis

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    thanks for coming out and go away :gtfo:
     
  14. razi

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    you might want to find out if the girl you're with even wants anal. oral is ok, I presume?
     

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