FRK threesome, not sure how to ask my bf?

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  1. deathofxromance

    deathofxromance New Member

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    i`m a girl, and i`ve been with my bf for a little ver a year and 3 months now.

    i`m very very interested in the idea of having a threesome
    girl girl boy,
    but i don`t know how to bring up the subject?

    also, how do i find a girl to do it?

    any advice would be greatly appreciated. :hsugh:
     
  2. dazed

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    just bring it up. he won't be disappointed. you've been together for awhile so just bring it up in conversation...or better yet, during the deed :naughty:
     
  3. The Repair Man

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    yea, us guys usually like the idea of 3 somes. Now actually doing it is something different. Just ask him.
     
  4. KungFool7

    KungFool7 keep driving—it's getting earlier

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    put on a porn with mff and ask him if he likes it in a sexy voice when you two start getting worked up
     
  5. soundmaster2.0

    soundmaster2.0 Toasted OT Supporter

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    Post it on OT so I can see that you want to do it? :dunno:
     
  6. deathofxromance

    deathofxromance New Member

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    chyeah. bf is member of OT.
    didn`t know he read "freaky shiat" forum.
    :squint:
     
  7. Bubba Atlantis

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    Lovely Atlantis Luscious Lovely Lady!

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    well I guess you don't have to worry about how to bring it up anymore... already done!
     
  9. Bubba Atlantis

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    hmm...Lovely.....I might have to make some new threads ;)
     
  10. Soybomb

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    :big grin: Problem solved. As long as you know he is into that sort of thing I don't think there's anything wrong with just asking. I wouldn't object if any girl asked me.
     
  11. low20

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    a lot of guys like the idea of FFM 3somes, but i know a lot of times they just like the IDEA of it, or seeing it in a movie, not actually doing it themselves...u just have to ask him, theres no way around it really....hint all you want but he might not figure it out until you ask him straight up
     
  12. Lovely Atlantis

    Lovely Atlantis Luscious Lovely Lady!

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    lmao I love how people don't read the thread but only read the first post...
     
  13. Bubba Atlantis

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    I didn't want to say it :mamoru: I was tempted to post that...but ;)
     
  14. HouseLing

    HouseLing When masturbations lost its fun you'r fucking lazy

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  15. RougeOgre

    RougeOgre FS Librarian and MOD

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    Well, now that that part is taken care of you have to find a girl. That is the really hard part, since most of us who have done this have been lucky enough to have willing friends. Other people have had to put quite a bit of effort into finding someone to play with.

    If you go back and read the old threads, you will see a common theme: Talk it all out and lay the rules out UPFRONT as in before anyone gets nekkid!!! If you don't all agree, then it's not going to work but if you can find the right playmate, your going to LOVE it!!!!
     
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    yeah, finding the right person is really hard and unless you are properly prepared for it, it can be damaging to a relationship, so make sure to sit down and lay things out, as Rouge says, prior
     
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    so he reads and he knows now, but is he into it?
     
  18. mbshoem

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    My first one my exgirlfriend was in bed with her bestfriend (girl) naked and waiting for me to come home. That was an awesome suprised when I got home.:3some:
     
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    indeed...that is always great....
     
  20. razi

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    don't get mad at him afterwards if he moans differently with the other girl.
     
  21. deathofxromance

    deathofxromance New Member

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    yeah right. so....i was planning on him not touching, this other girl. thats possible, right?
     
  22. crazytiger

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    um...thats not gonna really work
     
  23. RougeOgre

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    It is possible, but you need to work that out...NOW, before you even start to look for a playmate. Some girls may only do other girls but like to be watched. I think the Atlantis' have this type of arrangement. Correct me if I am wrong Lovely or Bubba.

    Hmm. I don't think they are on right at the moment.
     
  24. Coottie

    Coottie BOOMER......SOONER OT Supporter

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    Actually, as a guy, I would find this interesting if it's done properly. Teasing can be fun but be prepared...there are times when I've had all the teasing I can stand and I've got to get a release....that might mean he throws caution to the wind and just dives in the middle of the fray. I mean sometimes we guys just can't stop ourselves, ya know?

    So...that wouldn't be bad would it??
     
  25. Bubba Atlantis

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    Agreed, you lay everything out BEFORE hand (before even searching for someone). We sort of have that relationship. Currently, Lovely is not very comfortable with me doing much sexually with the women we get with. So for the most part, it is Lovely and the girl(s) doing things, with my role much more limited.
    This changes as things go along and depending on the evening. But for the most part, unless it is stated prior, I don't do much with the other girl(s).

    LOL on a side note ;) neither of us are on because we are writting exams today :mamoru:
     

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