I have an issue. I have three women, possibly even a fourth who are interested in me. One of them is extremely religious, which disqualifies her in my eyes, so I'm down to two definite, possibly three girls interested in me. Now, one of them works with me, the other two I met at a campus club which girl 4 (the religious nut) invited me to. The one who I'm sure is interested was just a guest of a friend who's a club member, the other is a club member. Essentially, all but the girl at work know eachother through very small degrees of separation. The girl at work is 26, very quiet and reserved. She's an immigrant from Poland (moved here when she was 11). She was seeing this guy from work, but got fed up with his games. I'd been asking her out every so often for a few months, and we'd gone on a date saturday. Today she told me it's definitely over between the two of them. Also, she's still a virgin. She's studying to be a personal trainer. The other for-sure interested girl is 22, extremely talkative, and seems very interested in me. When her friend wanted to leave, she turned to me and offered me her number, telling me to call her so we could have a movie night. She seems very nice. She's studying to be a Legal Assistant. We have the movie night scheduled for this upcoming friday. The probably interested girl is studying health sciences at the university. She's not a big fan of modern day music, especially rock, and adores classical music. She's rather quiet and reserved, but at the same time doesn't seem to have any trouble speaking her mind. Out of the three girls, this is the one I find the most attractive. She has black hair down to her shoulders, and something about her face I find very alluring. We didn't get to talk much last friday, as people kept interrupting our converastions. Now these last two girls have a friend in common. The girl from work I'm certain is expecting the romance to continue, as I've been pursuing her for a few months now, and we had a very magical (her words) night on saturday. Now that I've met these other two girls, I find I'm somewhat hesitant. I like her, but I'm also curious about where things may go with these other girls. I suspect part of my hesitance has to do with the fact that it took her til now to even show interest in me. Makes me wonder if she's settling because she can't have what she really wants. At the same time, I don't want to lead any of them on. My current plans are to be a gentleman and get to know them all, and see who I like best once I know their personalities better. Any advice on how to avoid all these tripwires I know are set up all around me?