Thoughts on dating a friend?

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  1. Irom

    Irom OT Supporter

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    First year of college and almost right away me and this girl hit it off. Nothing romantic, just hanging out all the time. We bacame really good friends, hanging out just about every night in the dorms. I could tell she was getting close to me and I became close to her and right before break we got really attached. We're not dating or anything but since I've been home we've called eachother every night.

    I'm not sure, I'm afraid if I date her or to get closer to her because I'll fuck up and I'll lose my best friend. Not sure what to do, I've never felt this way about a woman.

    Thoughts?
     
  2. Irom

    Irom OT Supporter

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    That, and she has a fickle history with men, which troubles me.
     
  3. skitcy

    skitcy uhm title! ok

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    Well do you really want to or care enough to? Either way you need to go further or back out just a little bit so nobody is sending the other person wrong messages.
     
  4. BlazinBlazer Guy

    BlazinBlazer Guy Witness to The De-Evolution of Mankind.

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    Dude, see the other thread in the vag. Some of the best romantic relationships, and relationships in general happen when you're not just lovers, but also best friends.
     
  5. jackjohnson

    jackjohnson simple as something nobody knows OT Supporter

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    go for it. ive felt the sameway before but it always ends up in the friendtrap which sucks big aids infested donkey balls
     
  6. chica&buddies

    chica&buddies Active Member

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    best friends make the best lovers :) it's true...

    go for it. you'll always have the "what if" in your head.
     
  7. kronik85

    kronik85 New Member

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    Depends on your maturity level. If you both are mature enough to try it out and know that it may change your relationship forever but are willing to make things work whether you date or not, then go for it. It's great seeing someone have the guts to go for it. Because, you'll probably hit it off, have lots of sex and babies and get married someday and everyone will be jealous that you found a good realtionship. All because you had balls.
     
  8. Irom

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    ehhhhh...that's not for me
     
  9. Midgetized

    Midgetized Don't mess with Douche Cat

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    That may be a problem then. If it's not something you would be able to handle if you were dating her then it may not be worth the trouble. It's only worth ruining the friendship if you are certain that you'd want a relationship with her.
     
  10. blurble

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    Where's Armond's thread when you need it?! :bowdown::bowdown::bowdown:
     

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