SRS thoughts of what I am about to do

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  1. hatedbyall

    hatedbyall New Member

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    been a while since I have posted here; but on to the point I have been dating this girl for a while and she wanted to have sex saturday but I dont want it to effect our relationship.

    Any ideas
     
  2. DiggityDogg

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    And why is that a problem for you? You aren't giving details.

    If you don't want to, then don't do it, but understand that this may be a big deal to her whether she admits it or not, and it could cause you to lose her. I've seen it happen many times. Been there myself in fact...
    If it's not a big deal, then do it and have fun but use protection.
     
  3. hatedbyall

    hatedbyall New Member

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    I know to wear a condom just I dont know what to do once we begin and it is embarassing bc she isn't a virgin
     
  4. Drifter87

    Drifter87 Yippi-kay-ay, Motherfucker

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    Let her know just before you put it in you are a virgin and need some "pointers". If she really likes you, there will be no problems. You are bound to have sex sometime, might as well start now.

    Plus no one is a porn start their first time!
     
  5. The Militant

    The Militant THE FUTURE

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    just go confident and if she likes you there wont be a problem with her helping you out
     
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  6. Nightshade

    Nightshade New Member

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    so you are scared about your first experience??

    go son!!

    jump in and don't look back!!

    there is always a first time for everything, and it is always easier with someone who is more experienced!!
     
  7. ebbnflo

    ebbnflo REAL- LAOT Hermit

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    Oh, I think there is a good chance that she will LOVE the opportunity to "train" you up right. :) And yes, condoms....maybe even 2 at once if it's your first time. lol
     
  8. ChrisOT

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    2 at once? don't confuse the lil thing :)
     
  9. Cerridwen

    Cerridwen Guest

    Almost everything you want to know about pregnancy, how to prevent it, how to know when she's pregnant etc.
    http://forums.offtopic.com/showthread.php?t=2041878
    read it.
     
  10. RedVsBlue

    RedVsBlue Penguins > *

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    Tell her you are a virign asap. Most women I know LOVE to break in a new virign. Especially if this is a long term relationship. Then she can teach you sex the way she likes it.

    Honestly, if you are nervous about it, it wont happen anyways. You need to just go with the flow. Planned sex for your first time is just going to build up anxiety anyways.

    Good luck though.
     
  11. hatedbyall

    hatedbyall New Member

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    I dont get nevous about things any more bc if you screw up you can usually try again, but thanks for all the help you guys(and girls)

    Chris OT I know what they meant I aint as stupid as what you think I am
     
  12. Drifter87

    Drifter87 Yippi-kay-ay, Motherfucker

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    My first time having sex, I went limp and couldn't get it up. A few days later the girl came back and we had sex for 35mins and she said I was the best she has ever been with.

    Since then we have had a lot sex and for several hours at a time. I am only getting better, and she can't get enough.

    So you gotta start somewhere!
     
  13. Cerridwen

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    You'd be surprised at how many clueless people there are having sex right now. There's a reason why the thread I gave you the link to is there ;)
     

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