this sucks, relationship problem

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  1. lilelfnuts

    lilelfnuts New Member

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    So i go home and i am hanging out with one of my best friends who i have known for about 10 years. She is a girl i am a dude. We get drunk and i tell her about my girlfriend, and that we have talked about getting married, nothing serious just talk. She Freaks out and tells me that she always thought she and i would get married. My jaw hits the floor. I am kind of in shock, well I am DEFINATELY in shock at this point. So we leave to go talk, she brings me to her bed room, is all over me, telling me she loves me, etc. to me it just felt so wrong, so forced, we didnt go all the way basically just made out, then i felt really shitty for kissing a girl that wasnt my girlfriend. But what the fuck is this a common thing? I just thought she would be happy for me, but shes telling me she has been in love with me for years and all this crap. I think she is just saying it to have some control over me, or she is afraid of losing a friend. Im not really sure which. :eek4:
     
  2. Azn_azzho

    Azn_azzho New Member

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    Haang out with her more, but dont let her think she has you in control. Go out a couple more times like that, as a friend, do nth to her. See how she is, if she really likes you she wouldnt play games. if she plays games, uhhhhhh, u tried to gain contorl over u.

    If you dont even wanna bother establish anything with this girl and just become frineds, just tell her.
     
  3. lilelfnuts

    lilelfnuts New Member

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    we are already friends. She is one of my best friends. Just wierd.
     
  4. Azn_azzho

    Azn_azzho New Member

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    yea thats what i'm saying, keep friends or get disconnected.
     
  5. D

    D A guiltless state of self awareness.. The process

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    Ummm, you tell your current girlfriend you umm sorta cheated? Or is that cool between you two?
     
  6. BTA

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    I had a nice long post typed up, but figured it was easier to just say that a lot of women are crazy.

    I think this is one of those cases.
     
  7. lilelfnuts

    lilelfnuts New Member

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    yes i fessed up to my girlfriend.
     
  8. MissKitty

    MissKitty If squats were easy they'd be called 'Your Mum' OT Supporter

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    She can't handle knowing she can never have you. Of course that doesn't mean she wants you, chicks are stupid like that.
     
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    D A guiltless state of self awareness.. The process

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    Ummm, I would get the hell away from her for at least a little while. Possibly for good.
     
  10. MissKitty

    MissKitty If squats were easy they'd be called 'Your Mum' OT Supporter

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    What happened?
     
  11. CelesteLeSonne

    CelesteLeSonne DEWmocracy

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    some chycks go for the guy that is taken. if he's good enough to marry then they try for it. stupid whores.
     
  12. Bruticus

    Bruticus half dead OT Supporter

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    Yeh this is risky. She either really likes you, or as MissKitty said she doesn't want to lose you and if she got you might just drop you asap as soon as your relationship is over.

    You'd have to judge which one it is from your knowledge of the girl and then figure out whether you wanna stay with your current or chance this one.
     
  13. lilelfnuts

    lilelfnuts New Member

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    She did th same thing a while back and never told me. :nono:
     
  14. MissKitty

    MissKitty If squats were easy they'd be called 'Your Mum' OT Supporter

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    :nono: indeed
     

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