I never want to mess around with a girl who has a boyfriend. But I don't want to ask them and have them say "yes," only to ruin our friendship, so-to-speak. If she doesn't talk about one, is that enough of a sign to just go for it? Or should I just ask her out (dinner, drinks, etc) and see what she says? Sorry, my thoughts aren't really coming out as well as I have them put together in my head. Just kind of general rambling. Anyway, any help appreciated.