This is my biggest problem when its concerning women v.DoesSheHaveaBoyfriend?

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  1. M.A. Malone Esq.

    M.A. Malone Esq. OT Supporter

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    I never want to mess around with a girl who has a boyfriend. But I don't want to ask them and have them say "yes," only to ruin our friendship, so-to-speak. If she doesn't talk about one, is that enough of a sign to just go for it? Or should I just ask her out (dinner, drinks, etc) and see what she says?

    Sorry, my thoughts aren't really coming out as well as I have them put together in my head. Just kind of general rambling. Anyway, any help appreciated.

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  2. fray

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    you're going to have to ask or you won't know.

    She won't necessarily talk about a bf, so you can't take that as any indication. And she may go out to dinner with you regardless of relationship status either because she enjoys a free meal, or she likes you, but doesn't *like* you.

    If it bothers you that much that it's a qualifier for you, I don't see why you're so put off by a 'yes' answer. You've got to know. And for all the yes's (grammar??) you get, you'll get some no's too.
     
  3. iwishyouwerebeer

    iwishyouwerebeer you shut your cunt Moderator

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    It goes like this:

    Ask her out. If she says yes then almost always she doesn't have a boyfriend. If she says yes and does actually have a bf she's a liar and you shouldn't want to associate with a girl like that anyway.
     
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    fixed :)
     
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    Toda Party .....

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  6. sapient

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    Truth
     
  7. Takitome

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    I think it's quite normal to be asked by would-be friends if you have a boyfriend or just ask you out. It doesnt send of the wrong vibe with most women I would think. Kinda give you that, "Haha I still got it!" feeling.

    Theres that bit of awkwardness yup. But if he wore a good friend to start with I know I'd keep him as a friend if he wanted to.


    Edit:

    Uh think I missunderstood your post, I'm not sure..
     
  8. BoypussY

    BoypussY game over.

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    you go in the for the kiss/move. if she says she has a bf (defence mechanism to not make her feel like a slut), tell hers "its ok and no one will find out". if she goes it with, shes all yours. if she physically pushes you away, STOP immediately!
     
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  10. M.A. Malone Esq.

    M.A. Malone Esq. OT Supporter

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    For the record, I asked her to go out for drinks. She came, and we talked alot. No BF to speak of.
     
  11. Buttons

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    So she's a liar because she agreed to go to dinner? :hsugh:
     
  12. iwishyouwerebeer

    iwishyouwerebeer you shut your cunt Moderator

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    Nah, I more meant she's obviously shady because she accepted a date invitation while having a bf, and that's the kind of girl he doesn't want to associate with.
     
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    you got her to cum already? nice bro :bowdown:
     
  14. SPRSLO

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    Either straight up ask her, or blend a question into the conversation. Like "what did your bf get you for Christmas" or "what does your bf do for a living"?
     
  15. 53k1a8

    53k1a8 the effects of the ugly stick are irreversible

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