This Guy has me going crazy

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  1. mugen_princess

    mugen_princess chika chika

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    Okay so ive been seeing this guy for about 5 months now and the first three months was the best ever we saw each other everyday ,talked everyday and texted ...lets just say we couldn't help being away from each other . then came the 4th month and everything changed he tells me we need to slow down and the same day he told me that ...he told me he couldnt wait till i moved out so he could move in with me . so i got confused and now we dont see each other only on sundays last time we had sex was oct 3 !! i mean i know its not all about being lovey dovey but he couldnt of changed so much in such lil time ...and the thing is he has a baby and i accept that but weird part about it is that i dont argue ..im very patient and understanding. he is cool with his baby mama but she doesnt like me . i mean what does this mean? should i be worried ? I just think he is confused ...:hsughno:
     
  2. Falconer

    Falconer OT Supporter

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    He's not confused.

    He's giving you mixed signals = low interest = move on and find someone else.
     
  3. Deborah

    Deborah Seeing is believing, but I don't want to know.

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    Sounds like a bit like my situation! I'm telling you now every body here tells you to break up which is probably the best answer to your question!
     
  4. MissBangBang

    MissBangBang New Member

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    The novelity of the relationship wore off...
     
  5. rsxratedr

    rsxratedr New Member

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    i agree with the top poster^^^
     
  6. Toroweedeater99

    Toroweedeater99 Registered E-thug

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    The first red flag should have been after 4 months he ready to move in.
     
  7. MattThom01

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    you guys started out at one extreme (seeing each other/calling every day) and he got smothered. So, now he's moving to the other extreme to compensate.

    Maybe, MAYBE you guys will eventually get to a happy medium, but this is usually a good way to burn yourself out on a relationship.

    Next time, no matter how new and cool it is, don't see each other day.

    Oh, and he has a baby and wants to move in after just 4 months? You're probably being used...
     
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    I hate to say it but he is probably right. You're going to probably deny this, say its not true, and be completely naive about it.......and honestly, thats not a terrible thing. Somewhere underlying I think it shows you've got some hope left in humanity. But its true, he is probably using you as a crutch to have someone there WHENEVER he wants
     
  9. he is getting back w. his baby's mom but does not want to dump you incase it does not work out.
     
  10. JordanClarkson

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    He's not over his ex and you weren't good enough to make him forget about her...
     
  11. certified.shitass

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    Nudes of you to judge whether or not he's worth it.

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  12. CapCrunch

    CapCrunch OT Supporter

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  13. vodkacollins

    vodkacollins New Member

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    probably exactly the case. if you dont believe us, ask him
     
  14. tommylightning

    tommylightning Least known OG on OT and I wanna keep it that way.

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    I think he has a new ride already. He's just keeping you in the air in case he needs to get laid.
     
  15. Abomb

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    nudes might help us determine if hes cheating on you or not with his baby's mama.
     
  16. Yail Bloor

    Yail Bloor OT Supporter

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    we've already established that if he was nice to you, you would lose interest
     
  17. 53k1a8

    53k1a8 the effects of the ugly stick are irreversible

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    agree
     
  18. andrewchin11

    andrewchin11 Cheap as HELL.

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    he found another girl... happens. just happened to me... lost interest.

    you became too clingy, or he lost respect for u
     
  19. MCohen

    MCohen #NotMyPresident #AmericaIsAlreadyGreat #GoSolar OT Supporter

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    Sounds like he's cheating on you :hs:
     
  20. hayguyz

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    sounds like maybe the sex wasnt so great on oct. 3
     

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