SRS This girl's logic is mind bottling....

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  1. Sure why not?

    Sure why not? New Member

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    ok so we started dating in feb, and kinda stopped at the end of april. She went to college near where I live but her home is 5 hours away in a different state.(where she is spending her summer) So naturally near the end of the school year we just kinda drifted apart and stopped talking to eachother. I thought both of us saw the signs and got the message that we wouldn't be doing the long distance dating over the summer. This was about a month ago when this happened.

    Today is the first time we talked since then. she IM'ed me saying that for the last week of school she had met someone and was seeing/in a relationship with him. Honestly I'm wondering why she even bothered to tell me this. I was kinda pissed back when it happened because I saw it on facebook, but at the same time didn't really care since I knew nothing would happen between her and I once summer began. But why wait till today to tell me about this as if it mattered anymore. I think she was only doing it to clear her own conscience. selfish women...im hope she got the message when i kindly told her to fuck off.(all I said was: have a nice summer)


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  2. blackbirdbeatle

    blackbirdbeatle New Member

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    Men are from mars.

    Also, bottling....
     
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    Women are from venus.

    Also, between her and I....
     
  4. Sure why not?

    Sure why not? New Member

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    umm ok... anyone have any helpful input. of course men are from mars/women venus makes sense, but anyone else have input?
     
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    sounds to me like she saw what you saw, that the relationship was over. She informed you about it later just in case you hadn't figured it out yet, because she didn't want you to get upset
     
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    as for the 'clearing her conscience' portion.... how is she being selfish? You yourself said that the relationship was over. Therefore, she had no reason to feel guilty, and her informing you was her ensuring that you weren't sitting there waiting for her while she moved on.

    It looks to me like she was being the opposite of selfish
     
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    You posted this because you're upset over this outcome.
    And the timing probably seems a little....quick....to you.

    But it seems pretty straightforward and orderly, as far as breakups go. Nothing out of the ordinary here.
     
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    nooo, she started this thing with the new guy while we were still hanging out/going on dates/whatever
     
  9. deusexaethera

    deusexaethera OT Supporter

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    I wonder why this was posted in the first place. People make the wrong assumptions about each other every day of their lives. Why is this one special?
     
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    I guess you've never had to vent before.
     
  11. Ameter

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    oh. my bad
     

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