SRS This Girl I Know

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  1. george346

    george346 New Member

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    Hey Guys

    First post and all so go easy on me lol

    Anyway i have been seeing this girl, things are going good so anyway were talking one night in my car and i tell her i like her she seems to take it well keep talking hooking up for the next week or so until the topic of a relationship comes up, now she got out of a long relationship like a month ago about a 5 year one, says she doesnt know what she feels for me anymore doesnt know what she wants, thinks she wants some freedom that sorta thing, so anyay i go to see her again today to talk to her so were talking i tell her how i feel about it if she wants time thats cool im willing just to see how things go she agrees fast forward about 2 hours and she is all over me again :hsugh: so basically what do you guys think i should do? am i getting played for a fool? or should i just see where this takes me?

    Thanks
    George
     
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    oh and basically any advice about how to show to her i dont want to hurt her or show her that going out with me would be a good thing?

    thanks again
     
  3. nosaj

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    I would give her some space, if you are the first guy she has dated after the break-up your in danger of being the "rebound" guy. I would becarefull and take it slow or you may end up with a heart ache.
     
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    PuppyCat O.T. Mom

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    Good advice. I agree with you 100%.
     
  5. johan

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    I don't think it's gonna work. You're not the boyfriend, you're the security blanket.

    "let's just keep it platonic, shall we? I just need some company and some comforting, and you look like you want to be used..."
     
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    Couldn't of said it any better.. a 5 year relationship is very long... keep your space and dont fall for her... cause you get hurt pretty bad if it all turns to crap... i've been there
     
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    Just be careful. Like everyone has said, she just got out of a 5 year relationship. And once you did establish you were cool with the whole space thing, she then gets all over you... mmmm not to sound harsh nor mean, but this girl sounds like she is wanting to get more out of you physically then mentally.
     

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