Cliffs are below. So here is some back story. Thanks to OT, my confidence has been up as of late. Thanks to Yail, I no longer talk to my ex. So a week or so back, I went to a BBQ on the 4th. Small BBQ and just hanging out. One of my friends older sister was there. I found her hot. When I first got there, she swore up and down that she knew me, but I didn't remember her. So the night goes on, we flirt a little, I give her a light touch or too. Later after she left, I ask my sister's bf who is really good friends with her brother and her to get some details about her, like how old she is, is she single, the basics. Never went past anything there, I found out she is 30 and she might be single. So fast forward to Thursday, I get a phone call on from my friend that I need to come to Starbucks now. I told him no, he then said, her brother just pulled up. I was there in 10 minutes. Well, she asked about me and her brother is willing to make things happen. So last night, my sister and I decide to have a BBQ and invite her bf, the girl and her brother. A very convenient way to get her over to my house. To kind of shorten the story, we flirt a little again. I walk her to her car and receive a nice big hug, like bodies close hug. I then man up and tell her that I want to take her out sometime soon just me and her. She lit up and smiled and said she would like that. I proceeded to get her number. So now I am stoked. She is super hot and just a really cool girl. But I need to get to know her more. So here is my question for OT, which will appear after the cliffs for you lazy asses. Cliffs Meet girl at BBQ, I like girl. Girl asks her brother about me Girl comes over for a BBQ, I get her number and going to setup a date with her. Here is my idea for a date, so this will be the third time we will be seeing each other, so I was thinking, maybe a dinner and mini golf, or some sort of action date where I can flirt with her, by touching and what not. Any suggestions?