I'm going to put this as simple as possible as to keep whatever emotions out of it. So, the good I've been seeing this woman for about 3 months, We can talk about anything for hours and we often do. She has 2 daughters, 12 and 18 I have a daughter 13 They all get along We talk and act like a "family" should and for the most part it feels good, but it's only been 3 months. Every Sunday the girlfriend and I go to breakfast on our own The bad I'm just not sexually attracted to her. She pointed out all her flaws and she was right. Since that time I've got to concentrate like a mofo just to perform in the sack. She's a nester, by that I mean nearly OCD style clean freak (I live "user friendly", my place is tidy, not overly messy and we do the laundry once a week,house choirs get done, if you don't clean that coffee cup straight away no biggie, it will get done later). I live an open lifestyle. Me, I work hard during the week and on the weekend if I want to go out I go out and to hell with the dusting, it will get done. Her, clean the house,do the choirs and if there's any time then go out. She plans the fuck out of everything and if it doesn't go according to plan then shit hits the fan, example, I bought dinner the other night and told her that after dinner we would go out for a night walk. instead I fell asleep on the lounge. When I woke up she was so dirty and gave me such attitude I ended up going home. I told her that I was going to clean my garage out over the weekend, then it rained and my mate came over so we had a few beers and it didn't get done, Holy shit, all hell broke loose AT MY HOUSE!!! The ugly She booted the eldest daughter out because she took the youngest two shopping and bought a game. Then proceeded to have a massive fight over the rules. Granted the argument was stupid but in the girlfriends mind the eldest daughter took time from her because the youngest two were sposed to be cleaning the house. Theres a shitlload more but I'm not going into finer points. So Should I tell her it's off before it goes long term? or should I man up and jump on her about or differences?