Things that have really affected your "inner game."

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  1. Placebo

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    There have been a few things that I have heard that have really changed the way that I think. I heard something along the lines of "Every female is one of your girls." This simple phrase changed my mindframe so much.
     
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    Could you explain this one a bit? I dont get it.
     
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    3 things.

    1. Taking martial arts/learning to to fight and defend myself.

    2. Learning not to be ashamed of all the nasty things I think about doing with a girl.

    3. Learning about body language and the whole mating dance.
     
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    Thanks! :bigthumb:

    One that struck me last week: "I deserve better. I'm not going to put up with this bullshit."
     
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    "You can't expect the same from everyone else that you do of yourself. -bandwagon"

    "No one ever said that being great was easy -bandwagon"

    " Whatever it is you are feeling is a perfect reflection of what is in the process of becoming"

    Whenever I feel things aren't going well, these things give me the kick in the ass that I need... usually I smarten up quickly.
     
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    Getting out there and showing yourself that it can be done. Read all information you want, but getting the "hands-on" experience is what makes a difference. The more comfortable you get, the more you can start paying attention and really understand whats going on.
     
  8. Yail Bloor

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    reading Double Your Dating, Anti-Dump's Machine, The Book of Pook, and Without Embarassment

    I have a powerful ability to read something and immediately apply it in my real life
     
  9. Placebo

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    K, well basically for me I don't really have a problem attracting girls, but I get far too focused on a single girl and leave all the others hanging. By really focusing on this mindset, I no longer have oneitis and I also have grown to appreciate women much more.

    It doesn't matter who they are, what they look like, or who they are with, every girl in your life is basically one of your girls and you need to bring out the good and treat them with respect.
     
  10. Falconer

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    In. Gotta look those up when I get home from work today.
     

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