theory.. any truth? girls who can and can't orgasm.

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  1. antihero

    antihero OT Supporter

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    I said this jokingly but started to think about it and Im wondering if there is any truth to it.

    How many ladies can get themselves off in 15 minutes or less with no toys/powertools/household appliances/etc? Are there any among this crowd who find they typically do not orgasm during intercourse?

    my theory is that any woman who knows how her body and mind work should be able to masturbate to orgasm within 15 minutes with no help. In my experience the girls who can do it themselves are the very same ones that get off almost all the time from sex, and the ones who say they could never possibly have an orgasm with a vibrator or something are the ones who typically dont get off or are very very difficult. Am I wrong?
     
  2. Midgetized

    Midgetized Don't mess with Douche Cat

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    I can get off fine from sex, vibrators and the bathtub faucet but fingering myself bores the hell out of me. I've never done it for 15 min because after about a minute or 2 my mind starts wandering and since it takes a little while before it starts to feel really good by then I'm already bored. I have ADD though so that probably has more to do with my lack of an attention span than anything else :o I like when a guy fingers me but doing myself just isn't that fun. When I want to get off alone I need it to start feeling good immediately and I'm usually done within about 5 min.
     
  3. bandwagon

    bandwagon Copy/Paste

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    Your theory may be about 80% right as far as 'having any old orgasm' goes, but you aren't taking into account vaginal vs clitoral orgasms. A woman can get FAR too dependant on clitoral orgasms if thats all she ever gives herself, which can lead to problems having vaginal orgasms with her lover.
     
  4. iwishyouwerebeer

    iwishyouwerebeer you shut your cunt Moderator

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    I get off from sex. I don't really get off from masturbation (probably because I never have to do it).
     
  5. foreverLost

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    I cannot get off from penetration alone whether its a vibrating dildo, fingers, or penis. :wtc:

    I can get off from clit stimulation alone whether its my hands, or vibrating toy.:hs:

    I get off hardest with penetration and clit stimulation :noes:

    Im a tough cookie to crack, and im very lucky to have a SO thats patient
     
  6. demosnat

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    I have fantastic vaginal from penetration
    I can get myself off w/ hands only in about four minutes
    I rarely use toys
    I can orgasm hands free crossing my legs on occassion
     
  7. Hunt

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    This is very interesting if this is true (not doubting you). I have never heard of a woman becoming dependant on clitoral stimulation to orgasm.
     
  8. Reign

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    My GF has only gotten off from me and one other dude (once) and she can masturbate to orgasm every time. I've gotten her off a couple times, but it's hard as shit. She can get herself of clitoral.
     
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    i get off really quickly from masturbation (no toys), and i get off really easily from sex (vaginally). if i'm given clitoral stimulation during sex it's like an instant orgasm :o
     
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    Having had GFs who were difficult to get off and GFs who were easy to get off, I can say that you must be awesome to date :big grin:
     
  11. JustaMeThang

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    I can cum in well under 15 mins with no toys, however I can not come from sex unless I am flickin my own clit in the process.
     
  12. antihero

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    we have 1 vote no, and many yes's... anyone else?
     
  13. fray

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    Um... sex = no. masturbation = I don't think so. I kinda almost get there and lose it. I'm thinking maybe that's it, but I'm told when it actually happens, I'll know...so maybe that's not it...?? sucks.
     
  14. demosnat

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    So you're not sure if you've ever gotten off?
     
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    then you definitely positively havn't had one that borders on halfway decent.. :wtc: i feel bad for you
     
  16. antihero

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    ill take 50/50 as a yes :)
     
  17. Coottie

    Coottie BOOMER......SOONER OT Supporter

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    One of my exs used to talk about this...the bold...but I didn't believe her. She never seemed to have one when we were out to dinner! lol
     
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    *sigh* sometimes I envy women...






    Then I remember the part about squeezing out babies and I snap out of it.
     
  19. demosnat

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    It's probably the only reason i've made it this far in school
     
  20. Jacy

    Jacy red lipstick brigade

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    me too.. i thought i was the only one who was this way
     
  21. Midgetized

    Midgetized Don't mess with Douche Cat

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    Try using the bathtub faucet, that's how I had my first orgasm. It's easier than using your fingers cause you don't have to do anything but lay there and enjoy it.
     
  22. Coottie

    Coottie BOOMER......SOONER OT Supporter

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    umm...do tell. How does this particular gift, and I do believe it is a gift, help you with school. I would think it would be distracting as hell...ima horn dog and when I was younger, it was even worse. That's part of the reason I'm back in school cuz I couldn't concentrate cuz I was too busy hiding my boner...or enjoying it. lol
     
  23. 53k1a8

    53k1a8 the effects of the ugly stick are irreversible

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  24. demosnat

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    It makes classes I dont actually want to take elevntyxxxbillion times better. Especially if theres a hot teacher
     
  25. demosnat

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    How does one do this? Just let it run over your clit? I may go try...
     

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