SRS The thrill of step parents...

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  1. bitetobreakskinn

    bitetobreakskinn Blinky the Christmas Ghost

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    Just want everyone's opinion on what to do...

    My stepdad hates me. I'm currently without a job, and I get screamed at daily/doors slammed on me by him because of it.

    An example (Today)

    [All parts are him YELLING at me, while I'm talking in an quiet/normal tone]

    Him : "What the hell are you doing"
    Me : "I'm still looking for a job, I have interviews and stuff, I go out during the day"
    Him : "You need to get the hell out there, don't you want to do anything, don't you want to move out, get a car"
    Me : "Yes, I'm home at the moment because I have an interview later today"
    Him : "This is bullshit, you should be busting your ass with at least two jobs, 50-60 hours a week" (This is no exaggeration)
    Me : "Ok, I understand what you're saying, but I'm trying, I have interviews, I still fill out applications when I go out for lucnh"
    Him : "Something needs to happen SOON, and I mean REAL SOON"
    *door slam*

    My mom is currently upset because of him screaming at me, but as usual, I feel like I'm in between my mom and her husband, and I don't know how to make her feel better. I care more about it bothering her, then him screamign at me, so I usually don't bring this shit up to her.
     
  2. The Secretary

    The Secretary My domestic skills will rock your socks off!

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    He has absolutely no right to say stuff like that. Frustration I can understand, but if your older you should demand some respect from him. Just like you should show him. It may upset your mother but talk to her about it, dont whine but talk.
     
  3. bitetobreakskinn

    bitetobreakskinn Blinky the Christmas Ghost

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    I'm 23 on Wednesday, I kinda feel like he fucked up my birthday already :hsd:

    And I don't whine, haha...My mom tried to talk to me about it because she was upset, and I kept telling her to not worry about it and I'll just deal with it or whatever.
     
  4. MissKitty

    MissKitty If squats were easy they'd be called 'Your Mum' OT Supporter

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    How long has he been in your life?
     
  5. antihero

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    you are 23, you arnt a boy anymore, and a man living in another mans house just isnt going to work out.

    time to go :hs:
     
  6. The Secretary

    The Secretary My domestic skills will rock your socks off!

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    You should have talked to her, not just telling her dont worry about it. Your putting it off, this obviously is bothering you so talk to her.
     
  7. bitetobreakskinn

    bitetobreakskinn Blinky the Christmas Ghost

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    Since 3rd grade....So I'd say 12-13 years, in there
     
  8. bitetobreakskinn

    bitetobreakskinn Blinky the Christmas Ghost

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    I'm workin' on it man, trust me. I don't want to be here, just staying til I pay off a little debt I have left.
     

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