The three main reasons for cheating?

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  1. moneyiscool

    moneyiscool KC OT Supporter

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    1. Revenge
    2. Motivation
    3. Chemistry

    or others.

    Which one do you think is the most common that happens for couples? Need some ideas please :hs:
     
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    ledzep73 New Member

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    Everything is subject to circumstance. It might be a different reason each time the same person cheats.
     
  3. iwishyouwerebeer

    iwishyouwerebeer you shut your cunt Moderator

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    Completely depends on the situation. There's certainly more than 3 reasons.
     
  4. XaPU!M

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    1. yes
    2. Isn't motivation the same as saying "reason"? as in you could reword the title as The three motives of a cheater?
    3. Maybe if you mean someone finds someone other then their SO who they just have amaizing chem with :dunno:

    4. lack of sex
    5. girl/guy got fat
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    999 999 999. drunk

    There are a bajilllion (This is actually a number, I just invented it) reasons for someone to cheat.
     
  5. Abomb

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    boredom... attraction... you were a victim of being seduced... just because you can...revenge.... boredom... better sex..
     
  6. Abomb

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    you should be allowed to cheat on your SO if this happens without them getting angry at you. a fat person is not a real person. a real person respects themselves enough to not be a bloated fat whale of a beast
     
  7. iwishyouwerebeer

    iwishyouwerebeer you shut your cunt Moderator

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    Why do you cheat on your gf? And does she know?
     
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    you would be AMAZED at how well never acting busted works.

    i dont know i cheat on her because i think women are beautiful creatures... i enjoy my time spent with more than one of them and they each have their own cute tricks in bed. i dont cheat on her often though
     
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    goddam it.

    I hate it when I agree with you.

    boredom, because you can, victim of seduction....
     
  10. moneyiscool

    moneyiscool KC OT Supporter

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    That's true. But in your mind if you would rank one that happens the most to every couples, what would you think the reason is?
     
  11. iwishyouwerebeer

    iwishyouwerebeer you shut your cunt Moderator

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    Lack of attraction to their current SO when someone more intriguing comes along.

    And no, not just physical attraction, attraction of something all together.
     
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    moneyiscool KC OT Supporter

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    what do you mean by victim of being seduced?
     
  13. XaPU!M

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    You know, as shallow as it sounds I fully 100% agree with this. If someone can't have enough respect for themselves or their health how the hell can I?

    But on a related note I have some friends as I'm sure you might that are big fat guys, but also gym rats and strong as hell. So although fat, can you really say they are all that unhealthy?
     
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    :bowdown::bowdown::bowdown:

    yes, being overweight is unhealthy man
     
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    there are pick up artists..... and then there are seducers. seduction is a much more powerful tool. pick up is just fucking gimmicks
     
  16. lauren

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    uhhh, 1 and 3 are a subclause of 2.


    if i had to pick three reasons.....

    weak
    shortsighted
    opportunist



    sorry for the lack of parallelism. :o
     
  17. Gibles

    Gibles the funny thing about my back is....

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    for a guy: someone more attractive comes along

    for a chick: they feel like they're not getting enough attention from their current SO

    common: SO let themselves go
     
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    If I had to pick 3:

    1) Boredom

    2) S/O doesn't treat you right, and some new guy/girl will do all the new things your s/o wont

    3) Loneliness in a relationship

    These are what I see most often. In most cases, if it is just your standard shorter, dating relationship option 1 is common. When it comes to LTR's, options 2 and 3 are more common.
     

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