The solution to so many girl problem threads in here is so simple:

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  1. MCohen

    MCohen #NotMyPresident #AmericaIsAlreadyGreat #GoSolar OT Supporter

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    Play the field until you're actually dating someone. Don't fixated on one girl, talk to multiple girls at once. THAT IS WHAT THE GIRLS ARE DOING! They're not waiting for you to call, or anxiously awaiting anything from you, they're playing the fucking field.

    You've failed already if you're anxious about one girl.
     
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    Yes, but this is easier said than done.
     
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    I definitely need to play the field more, I'm "failing" right now.
     
  4. notsousual

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    Some girls could benefit from this very same advice. Pretty much...don't take anything to seriously until it's obvious that it's becoming serious.

    But emotions/hormones do a great job of getting in the way.
     
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    Ideotique Drinking on monday nights does not make me an alco

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    Note. Once you are dating the girl do not continue to play the field.

    Isn't that right, McCohen?
     
  6. Deborah

    Deborah Seeing is believing, but I don't want to know.

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    :rofl::rofl::bowdown:
     
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    I feel sad for anybody "fixated" on a girl they aren't even dating :hs:
     
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    owned son
     
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    I feel bad for you son. I got 99 problems but a bitch aint one.
     
  13. MCohen

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    Aww, did someone cheat on you in the past and break your wittle heart?

    I'd say 90% of the time someone gets cheated on, it's their fault, not the partner doing the cheating. It's not my fault you fail at relationships, don't take it out on me, fix whatever is wrong with you instead.
     
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    So it's your girlfriend's fault that you perfectly cheated on her with 2-3 other women simultaneously?
     
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    Definitely. And he should propose to her too because that's wifey material :hsd:
     
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    serious question: why?

    do you mean you can't find more then one girl, or that you are so hung up on the one, you cant get interested in another?
     
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    Aww, defensive much?
     
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    Does this sound like a typical women thing to do "well he should know the problem so I'm not going to tell him about it, instead I think I'll just make things worse"
     
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    Are you serious? How is it the other persons fault if they get cheated on?
     
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    agreed. when im single im normally talking to 2-3 girls. i never focus on one girl until i decide whether they are dating material or not.... if i find a forth girl i normall cut ties w. the least desirable of the other 3. i dont really like to put forth the effort/time/$ with more then 3 girls at one time.

    once in a relationship im a perfect angel.
     
  21. MCohen

    MCohen #NotMyPresident #AmericaIsAlreadyGreat #GoSolar OT Supporter

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    If your needs aren't being fulfilled, you're going to fulfill them on your own, subconsciously or not. Its human instinct.

    Example:

    If you're starving, and someone gives you half of a sandwich, you're still going to be hungry afterward and going to find something else to eat.

    Keep your partner happy and fulfill their needs, and they won't have a desire or need to roam and find it elsewhere.
     
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    would you consider cheating on your partner fulfilling their needs?
     
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    Your eyes must be brown.
     
  24. MCohen

    MCohen #NotMyPresident #AmericaIsAlreadyGreat #GoSolar OT Supporter

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    Its human instinct to put your needs before the needs of others, even if you love them.
     
  25. BoomerP

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    Say that to a mother with a child ;)
     
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